They have been done and over with for atleast five years and his ex wife Is In another relationship herself but she still has to disrupt our lives. My fiance had to physically defend himself and call the police when they were together and now she's threatening me. When my fiance goes to work he tells me to call the police If she comes over and tries anything but this Is ridiculous. She gets mad over stupid stuff like not my fiance not calling their kids to say hi or not giving her money when she wants It and she gets child support. Now she threatens me because she thinks I'm taking time and money from her kids and I make more money than him....I think Its time to let him go but we have so much fun together but I can't live like this anymore....any help out there??
2006-12-15 16:22:15 · 9 answers · asked by passion 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have drama with my mans baby momma ,,for 8 years she has been ruining my life ..she has takin money from us but says we have no rights to see the kid on the holidays ,we have to call and ask her if we can pick him up at least a week in advance she says ,and she cancels any damn time she wants .she refuses to go to court ,and make everything legal .she told him she would bring up his being in jail before and make sure all his rights were takin away .being scared of not seeing his son keeps him from doing anything about it .i have begged him to go to court several times.and to put his foot down but he can't .i wish you all the luck in the world with this .she has never threatened me but if you have any of that drama and the threats too i would decide now if you can take it before you end up with his next child .
2006-12-15 16:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by tiffanyh2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer really depends on how much you love him. It sounds to me like she is an unbalanced person who needs help. I'm surprised your fiance' hasn't consulted an attorney about her erratic behavior and his parental rights. This also begs the question of why he left his kids with such an unbalanced individual. Perhaps you should tell her (and him) that the issues between them and the kids is just that and you will not partake in any future discussions on the subject. If she gets combative, hang up the phone. If she comes over, call the police. It's as simple as that. When she harasses and makes threats like that, she is breaking the law. And to be blunt, you have to take care of yourself beyond your love for this man. Marriage is hard enough all by itself and life is too short to spend it being threatened by some psycho ex-wife. Good luck.
2006-12-15 18:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance needs to stand up for himself and set the record straight with his EX WIFE. Thats right, EX. They share kids together and as long as he is fulfilling his fatherly duties then she has no right to interfere with his personal life. He has the right to have a relationship with his children. The marriage has ended, he will never stop being a father. If it means seeking legal advice then so be it. I don't think you should give up on this relationship just because of some jealous ex wife. All the best of luck!
2006-12-15 16:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by chilli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
incredibly you would be able to desire to stay out of it. do no longer consult along with her tdo no longer something yet smile once you spot her and dont answer her calls. you're no longer in any way shape or type somebody she ought to would desire to handle. Your fiance has a newborn along with his ex spouse and he's the sole one that would desire to communicate it is not your place. i conflict by using this however the coach is on the different foot i'm divorced and my exs female chum is a impolite impolite snob that likes to roll her eyes and supply me the finger. If she might in simple terms stay out of my business enterprise i does no longer have any isssues with my sons father incredibly. i'm no longer asserting you're in contact yet you do no longer would desire to handle her or like her. All you would be able to desire to do is know her round her daughter. The regulation is incredibly cut back an dry for newborn help all she is get is 17% of his earnings and achieveable help buying daycares/ babysitters, and medical. it incredibly is ALL! she will say what she needs yet she will nto get to any extent further money then 17%. in case you marry him she won't get any of your earnings the two she will continuously get a cut back an dry 17% of his gross earnings. good luck my expensive
2016-10-05 09:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about very seriously if you really want this relationship, because the exwife will always be involved because the kids, if too much drama, then stop the relationship, let him get back marry to his exwife for the kids sake!
2006-12-15 16:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance needs to take out a restraining order against her...
2006-12-15 16:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happens when you get involved with a man who has "baggage" I suggest you find someone who doesn't come with a past, since you can't seem to handle it.
2006-12-15 17:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll never end kiddo. Til' death do you part.
I would re-think your life plan. If it bothers you now.........just imagine the long term.
2006-12-15 16:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows how to get to you....ignore her...when she sees nothing bothers you....she will stop.....God bless you
2006-12-15 16:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋