My bestfriend is super gorgeous. And everyone comes up to her and says she is, and so many guys like her. I try to keep my cool but the jealousy monster in me comes out. What should I do?
2006-12-15 16:09:27 · 7 answers · asked by koolio jim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Damn, talk about blunt honesty. Well they can not say your issues involve lying. I affiliate jealousy with insecurity. It's not that your friend is all that. It's society telling the male gender that being shallow allows happiness. Not, at all is this true! Focus on you and be your own friend. Real people generate real beauty. And only someone real would take time to notice. Your day will come. It probably did, yet you were to busy being jealous to notice. I've had individuals tell me that, I always get the guy. Out of jealousy, and that changed our relationship. I don't want anyone being jealous of me in any way. Be more aware of your Greatness and less of the (shallow Hows) you don't encounter. Just a thought! Be Blessed.
2006-12-15 16:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by jrneytime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for your friend, and freely partake of any fallout, but know that a real human being will be remembered much longer than a mere flaxh in the pan.
2006-12-15 16:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown Oscillator 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may be super gorgeous and you may be the over looked friend but just know that all your relationships will be real while hers will mostly be shallow on his end ... just to be seen with a super gorgeous girl. don't be jealous over looks ... because looks fade while personality lasts forever ...
2006-12-15 16:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you see her not just as bestfriend but as more than friend...tell her what you truly feel...what if she feels the same way towards you? have a serious talk so everything will be cleared.
2006-12-15 16:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get some other friends to hang out with. Don't hang with just her.
Then You will get over it.
2006-12-15 16:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo Answer Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
work on your self-esteem. beauty is not all about looks you know im sure you have qualities that she admires and is maybe jealous of too.
2006-12-15 16:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put on a short TIGHT skirt and try again.
2006-12-15 16:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋