people in school called me gay. but ia not. it been going on 4 like 3 years now. about 1.5 year ago i started to watch gay porn. i think that is wrong but now i can't help it. i really dont like guys and will never do the stuff i see. is this normal. i need help lots of it.
2006-12-15 15:59:59 · 9 answers · asked by laolo 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Addiction to any kind of porn is not healthy for you or anyone. Ignore the remarks. STOP watching porn! Period! It can rot your mind. It gets into your brain and cause problems; do what it take to eliminate the addiction. Counselor, recovery programs, whatever. You won't regret giving it up. You can live free and clear without it, you really can. Porn is NOT normal. It leads to unpleasant, uncontrollable urges. Stop while you haven't done anything stupid or gotten yourself into any criminal activities. Eliminate the junk. Hold your head high. Be a gentleman and smile.
2006-12-15 16:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm guessing you're either in your late teens or early twenties. If i'm wrong you may actually be gay and should consider trying to pursue the happiness therein. However if i'm right, then you're just a person going through the growing pains of a creative (and there for curious as well as rebellious) mind. Relax, stop testing yourself with the gay porn, resign yourself to the fact that once or twice a year you'll wake from some very weird homo-erotic dreams, and let that little part of your personality balance itself out.
2006-12-15 16:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel attraction towards females then ur not gay,if u luv to watch scantily clad females,then ur not gay
get ur self a girlfriend people will realise ur not gay
watching gay porn is natural curiosity but dont watch it now that u've seen enough to understand it.
if this isnt helping then get a counsellor
they really work wonders
2006-12-15 16:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're watching gay porn and you may have issues you don't want to face...but I think you will figure this out for yourself eventually. It would not be right for me to say if it's normal or not, that is something you will have to decide.
take care
2006-12-15 16:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by gemma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u just dunt want people to call u gay, get ureself a girlfriend... a girlfriend that'll understand u, and that u wunt hevta hide this a secret from u... kk, good luck on finding such a girlfriend...
2006-12-15 16:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not sure yet. Stop watching gay porn, unless its 2 girls, that would be normal.
2006-12-15 16:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be rude and this is not intended to insult you but if you really think it is a problem, talk to a consellor. There are so many things to address in your question, I don't even know where to begin but I do know any one liner advice you get here probably will not help much.
2006-12-15 16:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by warriorclan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity is perfectly natural. In any case, allow yourself to explore without guilt. Guilty repression in this case would only be harmful, whether you're gay or straight.
2006-12-15 16:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Haifa Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not gay.. then you're not gay.. don't doubt yourself. soo what if you are interested in gay porn.. its just osmething that your curious about.
2006-12-15 16:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋