Mine left me at 5 weeks pregnant (blamed his mother ) of course. Wrote to me after I told him I was p.g.and he suddenly stops writing me at 6 monthes pregnant and I do not hear from him till our child is 1 1/2 months old! I cried a river of tears and he was in California and I was in Texas man that hurt. He comes back like nothing wanting to be a part of us !! Our child is now 31 years old.
2006-12-15 15:58:38 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK OK we got married when she was 3 years old and divorced when she was 16.
2006-12-15 16:06:17 · update #1
No I do not dwell on it he has his life and I have mine we have 3 kids together and we are now friends ..sort of !
2006-12-15 16:08:12 · update #2
In December of 2000 my father was dying from cancer and I was the only child here as my sisters lived out of state so I was the one having to do all the doctors, chemo, clean for him, cook for him etc. Right before Christmas the doctor said he had maybe a week to live so I started running even more. I went to work at 4 am got all my paperwork done and deposits made as soon as could so I could leave work by 1 then I drove 35 minutes to dads got done what needed to be done stayed with him till midnight when my uncle could relive me then went home slept for a couple of hours and started all over. Christmas night I stayed at dads all night because he was really bad and all day on the 26th he was in and out of conciousness and I wanted to be with him. Dad died right after midnight on December 27 and after he was gone I went home needing my husband and children for comfort I was met at the door as my husband was leaving and he said he was getting a divorce because I had neglected his needs for the last three months and he wasn't going to tolerate that. In a day I lost my father and husband but he paid for it I was hurt and angry enough that I took him to the cleaners.
2006-12-15 16:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this happened almost 16 years ago and I am long divorced. My husband left me one month before our child was born. Left the country and all. I had to pack up everything and move with my folks (had to carry everything myself too) when he came back from his trip (2 months later) he wouldn't even look at his child. I had done so much for him and he couldn't even be there for me. I don't dwell on it now though as he isn't worth my time.
2006-12-15 16:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me. After nearly 30 yrs of marriage. I like you cried a river of tears when l confronted him about it and he left me. We are back together again now and working things out but l could not handle anything like that again. He decided the grass was not greener on the other side and came back and confessed everything. We do love each other and he is very sorry for what he did. We are working out our problems and are now very happy. Merry Xmas.
2006-12-15 16:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you imagine those issues are tame? i did not have any alcohol till i replaced into about 13 (that replaced right into a sip even then) and that i'm 19 and function in no way smoked. i imagine the most unusual element i'd have achieved would were walked hom from the club with my boyfriend (this ended up horribly as someone tried to threaten and mug us and now we ought to bypass to courtroom for it). except that, I punched a boy contained in the face because he harm my brother.
2016-11-26 22:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do to a man (I think) is to neglect her and ignor her. I am being neglected and ignored by my husband. Anyways while im talking about something else! Tell him to stay away from you and the your child because he was not there for you when the your child was a baby. Tell him to F*** Off and get to stepping.
2006-12-15 17:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by i love someone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the worst thing he ever did apart from cheating and leaving me for that woman, was to ask me why i ever started a relationship with him, why i hadn't just left him alone from the start, and telling me the entire marriage was all wrong. so basically what he was saying he regretted ever meeting me, and never loved me, and never valued me. that hurt much more than his chreating, to go back and rewrite the whole marriage and vilify it, i think he said more than he ever needed to say, unnecessary things meant to hurt and destroy someone, after he had already cheated and was away from me. this had to be the worst relationship i was ever in, and he hurt me much more than he ever needed to. funny that when i was helping him in every way i could, he never said the marriage was bad than, only after he could no longer manipulate me and take from me did this get mentioned.
2006-12-15 23:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying now 31 years later he wants back in your life?
Please elaborate
2006-12-15 16:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most hurt i ever got is what im feeling right now...my husband abandoned me and my kids,no child support.im still inluv with him but i have to let him go for being such a cheated and lots of girls in his life and babies...
2006-12-15 21:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheat on me...but wow 31 yrs later...forget him he is not worth your time_
2006-12-15 16:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My soon to be ex-husband left me for his couisn by marriage. That sucks.
2006-12-15 16:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋