shy around girls help! email me at mrdarcyishome@yahoo.com with help please im desprate
2006-12-15 15:39:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IF your shy you are probably sensitive, girls love that but dont be way too sensitve. Go up to her and say what you want to say and if she says no it is not the end of the world it just means you and her are not meant to be or she is a loser.
2006-12-15 15:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a very reserved/quiet type of person. What broke the ice with us is that I, well, obviously noticed he was on the shy side in a way. Let me clarify that, he is very confident in himself, but is quiet. I think if you tell whomever you wish to speak with something like, "some words do not come out of my mouth easily even though they are so strong inside, so I want you to know that when I say I care for you, I truly do." I think that you will find the rest of the conversation to come more freely. Also, try to remember that others are often thinking about their own appearance and verbiage too. Sometimes, a shy person can come off as being aloof and not shy. There is a big difference. You will be just fine.
2006-12-15 15:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not alone. I am shy around boys. I guess its easier for a girl to say. You can start out slowly by talking to your sister, aunt or mom friends, then start talking to your guy's friend sister. Hopefully that can boost your confidence and you'll be one step further of being comfortable with your self around girls. the more you face them the more comfortable you'll be. Its OK everyone has flaws. Just be yourself. The more comfortable your with yourself the more comfortable people feel around you. Your body language can make people uncomfortable too so be comfy with your self.
2006-12-15 16:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by cafesoylatte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like that forever till i realized that shes not gonna kick you in the nuts for tryin. hit on fat chicks if you must but i reccomend going up to the most beautiful classy looking girl first and just talk to her like a friend. its a lot easier when you realize it doesnt matter in the long run. when you see ur boy get rejected what do u do? clown him for 2 minutes he doesnt care then he gets the girl at the end of the night...right? its a contact sport..meaning the more girls you contact the better your odds.. lol
2006-12-15 15:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by me mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry hun it is ok you will be fine sometimes guys are shy because they want to do the right thing and inside their spirit they are afraid that they will get a girl pregnant and then they will have to get married and have to take care of a family and they are not ready for all that responsibility.i am your friend telling this from my heart out of love.
2006-12-15 15:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry hun. I'm shy around guys. We like sensative guys. Just talk to us. Let the words flow.
2006-12-15 16:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by angel_in_pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-20 22:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind that you will get a date one time out of every ten tries. its just the way the world works. shave, shower, deoderant, clean clothes, no cologne. and nice shoes. nice shoes are very important.
2006-12-15 15:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get some confidence in yourself. Whatever you feel good about..do more of it. You need to build that up. Girls like boys who are confident.
2006-12-15 15:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking to a girl doesnt mean that u want to be together.. just be friendly. dont b shy, we're people too.
2006-12-15 15:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by HANNAH S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋