2006-12-15 15:24:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think it best not to give any appearance of being bothered by the person nor talk about them to anyone else even . If it's someone deliberately trying your patience particularly only when others are around confront them alone and let them know your not going to take it . Usually a bully type person will back off once you confront them and let them know your having none of their bull . Often times then they become friendly but for some odd reason call it insecurity or what but they have this ritual they repeat when meeting people. They try and test you to see how far they can push . So best advice don't sweat it and just be civil if possible , if not confront them alone and just ask what's the deal ?
2006-12-15 15:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to see a guy that I really hate every day, and the worst thing is, he's in almost all of my classes (awesome luck, isnt it). Whenever I even see him or hear him talk, I feel repulsed and disgusted. I enjoy skool, but I hate him, and whenever i'm near him, I can feel my hands clench in anger. I just ignore him and never talk to him, and I try and express my hatred towards him. But i feel like i'd feel better if I never had to see him again... sigh
2006-12-15 23:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding on to the hate hurts you so much more than them. If you let it go, and refuse to let this person have an impact on your life at all, you'll be much happier. You don't have to love him or her, but don't waist your energy on hate. When I need help with this, I run a quote through my mind - "If I can't control it, it's not about me." Good luck.
2006-12-15 23:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, i follow ur question. if u hate a person and have to see that person daily, then, think that person as ur friend and he is not ur enemy. and the main thing is to try ur level best to forgive him if he has done any mistake also. ull defenitly think of him daily because ull meet him daily. when u do so, u imagine that person as a good person say i like him/her very much and he does too to urself. then u wont feel like hating that person.
2006-12-15 23:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Swarna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't completely ignore her then she has complete control over you, which is worse than what you hated her for in the first place...2 wrongs do not make a right.
Move on and Peace.
2006-12-16 00:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by rynay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile really big and fake every time you see her, and then try to totally undermine her socially. I mean it, conduct your own secret war, and don't let it go until the situation is resolved to your satisfaction. However, always be sure to cover your tracks and never let anyone else know what you're actually up to.
2006-12-15 23:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starter's, if you hate some one, you don't eat at anyone other than your self. i know for fact some people hate me. but i can live with that because it is them being consumed by the hate not me. you are the one losing sleep, and messing up your stomach, and nerves up with the hate. your hate is affecting no body but you. so it best to at most to just dislike a person. just don't bother your self with them. it best to just not acknowledge them. life to short to have hate in your heart.
2006-12-15 23:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i know how you feel,its liking seeing someone that you like but they don't like you back.But eventually with the people that i hate,like at school.After having them through many classes you get to know them and after awhile i became friends with them.And hurts when they are gone.
2006-12-15 23:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Moanika 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav a friend like that and sumtimes i wish i wudnt c her cuz shes alwayz there!! i wud jus move on cuz its not hurtin her its hurtin u.if she talks 2 u talk 2 her but dnt get an attitude cuz it will come rite bak and bite ya rite n the butt!!
2006-12-15 23:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by NikNak13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep conversations short, and try to keep your mind on something else. Its not an easy thing to do, but it can be done.
2006-12-16 03:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋