help me i love this girl named alysa but she hates me and i cant focus in class or anywhere ill tell u when she first saw i was n love with her. Febuary,14,2006 i was at recess playing with my best friend zayne he gave alysa the note (love note) and he gave it to her. then she opens it and she screemed her head off but, i didnt know she had a boyfriend so i keep on thinking of killing her boyfriend so she mite love me (not again) plz help
2006-12-15 15:22:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Approach and apologize gently to her. Tell her straightforward what you feel but didn't know she had a boyfriend and didn't mean to upset her. But maybe she can find it in her heart to accept you as a friend again. At this point, it is up to her whether she will. (A love note is no big deal and not a reason to lose friendship with someone. I would be thrilled if that was me :)) And if she is still going with this guy, it is time to move on. The words of this song sung by Sting comes in mind. 'If you love somebody ,set them free'. If you are meant for each other, it will happen. If not in this life, it will be on the next. Good luck.
2006-12-15 15:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her enough you will keep your distance and let have the space she needs. Be the admirer not the stalker. ANd you'd be wise to keep your heart away from murderous schemes you have been trying to concoct in your brain.
2006-12-15 23:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by sharia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you, i would talk to her, but not saying that I like her. Also, I would not talk to her very often, because she might hate you more!!!
2006-12-15 23:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kazuri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what can you do?
I once had this girl that was always talking to me until i told her that i liked her and from then on she would ignore me now that i dont like her anymore she talks to me again
Sometimes they can just be bitchy about it
2006-12-15 23:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by chivafan07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you already knew how to help yourself.
2006-12-15 23:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by DFlavor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋