my best friend used to be best friends with a different girl. then they had a huge fight and i became best friends with one of the girls in the fight. the other one always gets jealous because she used to be friends with her but know i am. the only problem is that it was her fault that i became besties with her old bestie because she was really immature and started a fight. what should i say to the jealous girl? plz help?? ps the jealous girl always gets al sad and mopey and she isnt happy to be around at all! i try to be friends with her but she makes no effort at all. she blames me for everything! please help me??
2006-12-15 15:14:48 · 7 answers · asked by <3 Chapstick. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Perhaps you are aware that the girl is manipulating you into pity for her and abusing your good nature, or maybe you don't see it in your need to please friends according to their perceptions not yours.
Do you really need help to know what to do ?... Dear Heart; if the girl blames you for everything and is not happy to be around at all, then if she can't make no effort, take some distance from both and ask yourself if you really need that kind of friends. They are playing a game with you so if you wish to avoid it and the jealousy between them, I would suggest giving your friendship to someone else who will be genuine and life will be more pleasant for you. You don't really need to justify your actions to the jealous girl. She knows what she is doing! And when she notices that you are keeping distance from her, just tell her you do not play that game anymore. Think of your peace of mind and happiness first, then you can be friend with more mature people.
Good luck and have beautiful holidays with those who love and understand you.
2006-12-15 15:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealouse freinds all ways like to cause trouble and are evile my mother all ways had jealouise freinds and they got involved in my life and made my life hell and they hate the fact that you have something better that them if you ever have an freinds that are jealouse the best answer is to break up with them, and they can cause trouble they will try to cause you to loose everything....
2006-12-15 15:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by foxyfarther88 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think a relationship is based on trust and honesty and if that's not there then there is two options. He's cheating on you and trying to blame you so that heat is off him.He can also make you think that you are doing something wrong so you agree eith his wrong doing and also have low selfsteem
2006-12-15 15:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
'Sounds like she's just causing a bunch of mess for you.
The jealous girl sounds immature and I don't think you should waste your time with her. She needs to learn how to be a good friend.
2006-12-15 15:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
STAY away from her
shes a total *****
real friends DON'T do that kind of stuff
Stay away from her!
2006-12-15 15:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by MissNOYB! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HELLO AMY!!!!!!!!!!!!
I LUB U!!!!!!!!
p.s in answer 2 ur question let her sort it out herself
2006-12-15 15:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
burn him/her outt!!!
yeah!
2006-12-15 15:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by EmO ChiLd :* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋