I am a 27 yr female and have been married for 2 yrs. My husband is not very sexual- but I am. I enjoy sex and have been invited into another's couples bedroom. My husband and I are very close but I don't know how he'd react to me asking/mentioning it. I'd like to do it. Do you think it's a good idea?
2006-12-15 15:09:09 · 10 answers · asked by lovelost 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off, ask him what he thinks. He may want to get involved too. Second of all, I have heard that it may be a very good thing for relationships, but you have to watch how you do it. Make sure that no matter what happens, you and your husband knows exactly how the other is feeling. Keep an open relationship, but be honest. Good luck.
2006-12-15 15:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by beast00799 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's back this up for a moment...
Typically a male about 27 years old being not very sexual is highly unlikely. Also, a male being "not very sexual" is usually a symptom of something else.
You guys have been married for 2 years... He's exhibiting symptoms of something that is manifesting itself as a lack of sexual desire, and you seem utterly clueless of what matters this could be.
However...
Taken at face value you indicate that he's not into it, and yet you comtemplate asking him to perform in some rather "outside the box" activities? And you have to ask, "Do you think it's a good idea?
I would say that you are either putting us all on, and having a good laugh while you drink your beer, or you are a perfect example why there should be means testing with respect to marriage...
2006-12-15 15:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by LongSnapper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if you want to stay together .
I know of a few couples that did that and their marriage
didn't last very long.
No way i would even thank about it.
2006-12-15 15:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by scsriver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him! His disinterest in sex could be due to an embarrassing problem that he does not know how to talk about. If you want to be even closer to your man you have to communicate. I really hope things work out for you.
2006-12-15 15:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by texaspride1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a lousy idea.
Marriage is a sacred covenant between 2 people. But it's really none of my business.
2006-12-15 22:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him and find out. Watch how you word it too.
2006-12-16 17:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just curious? WHy did you ask this in the gay section?
2006-12-15 16:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he says yes, I've seen to many couples fall apart from this. my advice...don't do it
2006-12-15 15:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if he doesnt want to do it. but thats only because you are married otherwise i would say go for it.
2006-12-15 15:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could.. my wife said no.
2006-12-15 15:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Case IH Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋