There is this girl I like We are both sophmores and have known each other for months and we both know we like eachother. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug. I giver her a hug once in a long while anyway but that is it. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs.so wht do you think I should do ? and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saveing that for marraige.
2006-12-15 14:33:43 · 13 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was asking what should I Do to become closer to her in our relationship.
2006-12-15 14:36:57 · update #1
And I do keep my hands to myself almost ENTIRELY.I respect her very much
2006-12-15 14:38:01 · update #2
And I do keep my hands to myself almost ENTIRELY.I respect her very much
2006-12-15 14:38:04 · update #3
And I do keep my hands to myself almost ENTIRELY.I respect her very much
2006-12-15 14:38:06 · update #4
As one of those "anti touch" girls, I have to tell you, it could take a while for her to change. Be careful not to make her uncomfortable and wait for her to make a move. And props on waiting for marriage! That is the greatest gift you can give your future wife.
2006-12-15 14:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Always a Mentor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats nice to know that you have a sensitive side. But out of respect for the girl you like, you need to hold back. If it really bothers you, you should talk about it with her and let her know how you feel and where this is going. But bottom line respect her boundaries.
2006-12-15 22:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by MISSESLARA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to go out with her, then you are going to have to give her time to decide if she wants to be held by you or not (including hand holding). I lot of people do not like to be touched unless it is by someone the love and trust.
2006-12-15 22:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're not a "touchy kind of guy." You want to have sex with her. It doesn't matter if you're going to act on that or not, that's your personal choice, I'm saying that's what it means. What does matter is that if two people genuinely like each other in that way, then they want to touch each other.
Are you her boyfriend? Maybe that's what you need to do. Make it formal. Maybe she just needs that title in order to be comfortable touching you.
2006-12-15 22:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you respect her feelings and her space, and are reading her body language correctly: that she is telling you to back off, then just leave her alone. You don't have to touch everyone you hang out with. If she doesn't like it, get over it. If you don't like that she doesn't like it, then find someone else who doesn't mind you being touchy feely.
2006-12-15 22:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jane BK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats when she told me the story about free milk and the cow,
and said no huggy no kissy till I get a wedding vow.
My honey, my baby don't put my love upon your shelf.
She said don't hand me no lines and keep your hands to yourself.
2006-12-15 22:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by reconnermom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about touching mate. She's not against touching, touching is natural! She's just not ready, give her time, if it's meant to be it will happen.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 22:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know how much you care for her. that you will always be there when she needs you. and she has a shoulder to cry on if she needs one.
2006-12-15 22:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves you or likes you then just tell her and she will under stand and if she says no i would stop.
2006-12-15 22:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you respect that she's as you call it "anti touch"
2006-12-15 22:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by babiibrownie818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋