Everyone there including the boss is acting like they can't do without her. I am knew there and trying to learn all I can but no one will let me do anything for them they all run to her. I cannot learn without doing anything. Do you all think that she will be their pet from now on or do I have a chance of even bing treatied like a person who knows some and can learn more. She even go her bonus and only started there two months before me. the boss told me I had to work there a year before I would get mine. What do you all think. Thanks.
2006-12-15 14:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl 4 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
wow that sucks...... i'm sorry..... i don't know what to tell you
2006-12-15 14:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥princessai♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, well it looks like you'll have to fight for your rights, for everything, don't think you have to be subjected to this.
You need to show them you can help them too, just jump, you will have to change the way you work then, show her you aren't going to stand for it and do stand up for yourself and if you have to grab the work or whatever request if in writing. If not just say I'll get that for you, even for her meaning tell her I got it, or I'll do it or I'll take care of it, but jump, you'll have to really jump before she does. I've been through something similar, remember if you can't win, join them.
2006-12-15 22:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this person the same grade as you? I'm a Unix System Administrator, but there are Unix Admin I and Unix Admin V positions - who have vastly different responsibilities.
What is your job? What are your responsibilities? What is good performance considered? Understand that, and you can progress.
From what little I'm reading here, she seems to be very competent and everyone is looking to her. To me, it would seem advisable to learn everything she does and perform as well as she does.
2006-12-15 22:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by John T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its best just to ignore them. ignore her. if it really bugs you, get a new job, because in this world there are dic ks and there are a s s holes,but there are also *******, di cks fu ck pusie s and a s s holes but sometimes the a s s holes s h i t on the d ick and the pusi es can turn into assh oles and before you know it, the asshol es are shitt ing all over everybody. keep your head up good luck.
2006-12-15 22:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Helpful 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have patience. What you think about yourself may not tally what your employer expects from you. Just watch and after two or three months, if you do not enjoy working there look for an alternative first and then quit.
2006-12-19 21:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sux. Been there, done that. I usually just listen, say OK, then do things the way I think I need to. Why get let someone get to you?
2006-12-15 22:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate peole like them. It makes me mad. The only advice I CAN give you is to not use physical violence.*notice I NEVER said emotional or mental, if you catch my drift*....nah Im just egging you on.
So heres the real advice:
Try to accomplish something that she could never do.
2006-12-15 22:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ronald. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
out-do her if you want things to change.. show em that youda man
2006-12-15 22:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by itschris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it not a Mafia group? Better, please check it up.
2006-12-19 21:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋