WELL I HAVE THIS ISSUE. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DANCE WITHOUT BEING VERY SEDUCTIVE, LIKE IM A STRIPPER. I HAVE NEVER BEEN A STRIPPER BUT I DANCE LIKE I AM. I CAN'T DANCE AT FAMILY PARTIES OR ANY PTHER IMPOTANT GET TOGETERS WITH FAMILY. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DANCE WITHOUT THRASHING MY HAIR AND BENDING OVER, SWAYING MY A$$ BACK AND FOURTH UP AND DOWN, RUBBING MY A$$ ON PRIVATE AREAS....ITS CRAZY
2006-12-15 13:23:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
People gave you a lot of bashing here because you gave rather juicy description. I never dance as suggestive as you describe (except maybe extrememly private occasions) but I also feel a little awkward when I need to dance at family gatherings. My solution is - try and dance like my aunt! It makes her happy that I want to dance like her, and it saves me from being embarrased. Because there is no way I can dance at family gatherings the way'd normally dance at a club, even if I tame it down like 5 times.
2006-12-16 08:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that dancing without being 'suggestive' is tricky in this generation. I've been to a dozen of school dances and seen kids my age 'grinding' and 'stripper dancing' a lot. They think it's hot, but really it's not the best way to go. I'm 14, and I can dance without being seductive. It's probably hard to break the habit, so here are some pointers.
1) Keep your hormones easy! You might dance like that because you think guys like it or something. You might have been influenced by tv or something.
2) Just remembers some donts as you dance.
DONT whip your hair around
DONT shake your stuff
DONT do the 'snake' ((shimmy back and forth))
Trust me, sexual dancing only looks good if you know how to do it right.
3) Focus on your arms and legs, not your butt, chest, and head. When you dance, move your arms in new and interesting ways, and let your body follow the motion of your limbs. Don't make moves consisting of ONLY moving your upper/lower body. Don't just sit there and whip your head around.
If you can't control yourself, just go slow and easy. Stand in one place, move your arms and sway back and forth.
I really don't know how to dance. I would say be yourself, but... you're 'self' is a BIT out of control. Just STAY AWAY from your butt, private areas, and keep your hands ABOVE waist level.
I don't mean to make you sound like an alcohol addict or something, but I don't want you to embarrass yourself.
Hope this helps...
2006-12-15 21:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Phoeniix 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might want to take lessons in a particular style of dance. Learning proper form for the movements might help you have a better focus and approach when you're dancing.
2006-12-18 22:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by J'naii - belly dancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tie your hair up so that u dont flip around..watch music videos and see how they dance in a non trashy way like at youtube.com
don't dance to music with lyrics that'll make u wanna rub your *** on other people....
and stop stripping and get a REAL job!
2006-12-16 00:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by pamplemousse 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
woww...first of all, i think you need some self-control. you have to discipline yourself not to do those seductive moves..then concentrate on dances that involve a lot of footwork,not so much hip and butt..like the heel toe, or walk it out..you'll have fun dancing without looking seductive.
2006-12-15 22:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by NiseyG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think i had similar ''problem'' it is because you feel very sexy and when you are dancing you simply express your sexuality. Have you ever dream of being pole dancer? Buy portable pole as i did;0) very helpfully and fun!
2006-12-16 07:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some "Ballroom" classes. You will be able to learn the basics and etiquette of social dance situations.
2006-12-16 02:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by o 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well guys tell her. What a flake. Only the guys can give you up. put you where you want to be . For the others you are a fake. I guess you only needed to get yourself off
2006-12-15 21:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Life lover 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you must be young and nieve
your full of yourself and guys see that
they will either use you, play you or try and embarrass you
youre type is easy to mess with mentally..
confidence is good but if your ugly on the inside nobody will respect you
2006-12-15 21:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you can't it's that you won't, not dance sexy. but see there's sexy and then theres trashy and from what you're discribing...you dance trashy!! Sorry sista, you gotta really try to tone it down.
2006-12-15 21:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by dragonlady_872 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋