I was just curious about masturbating. I am a young male that is 21 years old and I know a pretty girl at my college, Jackie, but for some reason I am paranoid about masturbating to her because I see her so often and am afraid I will feel weird around her. Jackie is totally hot and has a cute butt. No real prospects right now with her. So instead I tend to masturbate a lot to women like Britney Spears, Katie Holmes, Camilla Belle, Rachel McAdams, Jessica Biel etc... Girls I know I have no shot with and dont know me. Is this better to do or does it really matter? Will I feel any different either way?
I guess part of the sexual fantasies is treating the women as a sex object. Maybe I dont want to offend. I usually picture these women wearing a short skirt with no panties on bending over. I have a hard time doing that thinking about a friend. I do have a friend Jackie who I am tempted to masturbate about but still am wondering if I will regret it. Will I?
2006-12-15 12:49:27 · 7 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As a woman, I would not be offended to something like that. What do you think women do when they fantasize? We don't exactly think of men as whole human beings who deserve respect.
It'll be Ok so long as you do not treat her differently in real life, and since you are concerned about her (and seem to respect her) I don't think you will.
2006-12-15 12:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by CrystalEyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you see her the first thing that will pop into your head is that youve been masterbating thinking of her. I wouldnt do it. Why not just try pornos lol or just ask Jackie if yall can go on a date and maybe it will lead to yall being together but then you can masterbate to ur imaginaries.
2006-12-15 20:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girls you really love, are the ones you can not masturbate about. When you really love someone, you really care about that person. And when you really care, you will notice that you are not able to fantasize about them naked. In other words. Britney Spears is not someone you really care about. You only know her looks, but not her heart. Then fantasizing while masturbating is a lot easier. But when you feel regret, you probably care about that girl. Then stop fantasizing, and try to date her!
Conclusion: Try, and found out about your love to her.
2006-12-15 20:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Emile D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, don't masturbate so much, it's turning into a bad habit. Talk with her, go out with her. Grow intimate and then see.
2006-12-15 20:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by the_post2001 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nobody has to know what you do in private. just make sure you treat her respectful otherwise
2006-12-15 20:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by leena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT, U will regret it.
2006-12-15 20:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're dumb.
2006-12-15 20:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋