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Question

My exhusband and I have been divorced for about 9 years now. We have two girls one lives with me and the other lives with with him. Now Oct.31 he went to the hospital he lost a little over 6 pints of blood he was about dead. Now he is out but aint doing well. He has his own business I found out him and his wife went to a lawer and had business put in his name and I don't know what all. We have joint custody of the girls. And the ex has life insurance. But turned business and everything to his wife.Now I found out that if something does happen he dies my girls is titled to some insurance money. And being that I am alive and I am the real mother my daughter has to come home to me right? I don't care about the money really all I care about is my daughter.

Answer 1

You need a consultation with a lawyer; if he
has the business in his present wife's name and
his insurance lists her as the beneficiary and
none of ur daughters name is on either one
his business or insurance, you will probably not
get any money after his death, why because he
put it all in the name of his present spouse.
What you can do is talk to him in putting part
of his insurance in your daughters names and
forget about the business as the wife will not
change that since her name is on the business
part of it: A lawyer can arrange the insurance
part but he will have to agree to have his
daughters listed as part of the beneficiaries.
You need to move swiftly as if you do not do
anything and go under the presumption then
your daughters will not be getting the help
they deserve.As for if your daughter who lives
with ur ex check to see that the other woman
did not adpot her as that will cause a problem
if ur ex does pass away, and as long as she
does not adpot ur other daughter then she will
automatically come to you. Make sure you be
careful in choosing a right lawyer because with
you being a woman sometimes they take ad-
vantage of that. Get a referial from a family
member or a good honest friend. Good luck.

Answer 2

Be there for her and attempt to get her to seek for suggestion from from her dad and mom... by her chatting with them supplies her extra recommendations on wether or no longer she needs to keep it or maybe adoption she has extra recommendations now than she will later. Her dad and mom will locate out finally purely be certain it truly isn't any longer to overdue. And be an excellent pal and attempt to help/training guide her to make the options she needs and in no way what all people "needs" her to do because she am has to handle it in a while in existence no remember what she makes a call... and prefer the lady before reported her dad and mom will boost to the concept and sure there's achievable they'll free it even with the undeniable fact that the received't harm her or the infant. So inspire her to make her judgements which will earnings her contained eventually.

Answer 3

Yes, your daughter should come back to live with you. The money should be put in an account until they turn 18.

Answer 4

Your ex's wife could file for custody but the courts tend to put children with their biological mother. The answer is YES.

Answer 5

Of course! If he dies, the mother (you) is the next person to get the child... not the step-mother. Don't worry about that.

Answer 6

I think you should try and talk to him to see and hear what he is saying and if that does not satisfy you, take the situation to the court. You really need some base to work with.

Answer 7

his wife is not the mother of your daughter. if he passes away she will not inherit your daughter.
the only time you are going to get insurance money is if you or your children are beneficiaries to the policy.

Answer 8

You got it right on the money (so to speak)! Daughter is yours, forever after.

Answer 9

if your daughters are underage,of course they would have to come home to you, If they are grown they don't have to come home to you