I was just curious about masturbating. I am a young male that is 21 years old and I know a pretty girl at my college, Jackie, but for some reason I am paranoid about masturbating to her because I see her so often and am afraid I will feel weird around her. Jackie is totally hot and has a cute butt. No real prospects right now with her. So instead I tend to masturbate a lot to women like Britney Spears, Katie Holmes, Camilla Belle, Rachel McAdams, Jessica Biel etc... Girls I know I have no shot with and dont know me. Is this better to do or does it really matter? Will I feel any different either way?
I guess part of the sexual fantasies is treating the women as a sex object. Maybe I dont want to offend. I usually picture these women wearing a short skirt with no panties on bending over. I have a hard time doing that thinking about a friend. I do have a friend Jackie who I am tempted to masturbate about but still am wondering if I will regret it. Will I?
2006-12-15 12:39:36 · 3 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
WTF?! Are you some sort of prude or something? It's not disrespectful to masturbate to ANYONE as long as they don't know, and it doesn't make them a sex object. Objectifying a person is when you don't see anything but the potential sex in them, and if you still respect her as a person, there's nothing wrong with fantasizing about ANYTHING and ANYONE you want to.
Why haven't you asked her out yet?
2006-12-15 13:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's fine. I am a woman and while it could be awkward if she found out, there's nothing wrong with it. Honestly, sometimes women fantasize about being treated like a sex object.
2006-12-15 12:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by mo_c_mo33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eww! dat's nasty and sick i should caw da cops but i won't man but u need Jesus and i don't care if u cus me out o whatever
U need Christ in yo life. God don't want u 2 do dat and u need 2 go church kay. go 2 church if u can the Lord loves u an cares for him go an watch da passion ov da christ. God koves u so much dat he died fo yo sins so u would go 2 heaven and not hell the Lord God Almighty loves u. No u should not do dat 2 Jackie. okay u need God in yo life got it.
2006-12-15 12:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by mz.money 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋