my mom and dad divorce when I was like 2
well my mom moved from Kansas to Atl
when my mom moved here she tried to get my dad to contact me but he pretended like he didnt know where we lived even when my mom's friends would give him information
i didnt hear from my dad until I was in the 8th grade and that was only b/c my mom could finally afford a lawyer to get her child support. I dont really talk to him at all b/c there's no point in pretending like I can ignore the fact that he didnt even try to contact me at all when we've been staying in the same house since we moved here.
2006-12-15 12:35:40
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answer #1
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answered by Ashley J 1
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My wife or my ex-wife I should say had hit me up with her lawyer for big bucks every month, the thing is that I see her new boyfriend living in the house that I paid for. To me I see that as freeloading on my children's monies. But, the court said different, I hate child support if I cannot make sure that the monies benefit only my children and not no live-in, unemployed, lazy bum. What the hell is this world coming to.
Do not misinterpret my words, I do anything for my children, giving money to them, getting things they need or want, making sure they have a good education, BUT, don't like seeing someone who doesn't work enjoying the fruits of my children's support monies.
2006-12-15 20:35:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I truly believe that system was not designed to help the child but to punish the person making more money that the other parent.
I pay $800.00 for one child. I don't mind paying support but it hurts to see how that money is being used. Another problem is that it is not fair across the board. I know guys making the same money as I do and they pay less than $600 for 2 kids.
What the hell is up with that?
2006-12-16 00:24:19
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answered by Belize69 2
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well my x owes me 15,ooo if not more. I never bothered him or kept the kids from him and all he does is demean me in front of my children. He never has bought anything the children needed. I am on my own with 5 children. well recently he decided to make all these lies about me to the court system because I worked hard and now I have a better job then him he now wants custady and have me pay support. so now I have to waste my money on a guardiam ad litem and an attourney to defend myself. We have been separated for almost 7 years and even when I had cancer and couldnt work he never paid a dime. the kids would walk in the house and say "we're poor" Daddy has money. well they were little and didnt understand. I wish he would fall off the face of the planet. He verbally and physically abused me for ten years plus the 7 years we were separated. I am about ready just to leave state and give him the kids because I am sick of the games. I faught on my own to be where I am with these kids and i have to keep proving myself. I'm about ready to go tell this judge to f off and she can deal with the kids when they are near death beacause the father only cares about himself not the children and I dont have to explain sh to her. she knows it all look it up herself. Butt hen I have to remeber its not her but him, she dosent know me from addam. I also have a 19 year old and she had a couple of guy friends over once and they were talking about girls getting knocked up. Well I told the "well if anyone knocks up my daughter I would kill them because social security is easier to get than child support".. Huhhummm..kidding of course. Well they never showed up again. well bye.
2006-12-15 20:58:54
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answered by Spinning Times LLC 3
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well I pay support and I now my little girl gets everything she wants but for my boy on the other hand he gets hand me downs. I pay 200.00 a week plus 110.00 for day care and 130.00 for half the mortgage on a house they don't live in. when I get my check I have only about 160.00 left after paying all that so the guys that cry about about paying 50.00 a week grow up. you can't change the way courts run all you can do is keep your month shut. and don't let her know if you make more money they will just take you back and take it to. Been their done that still doing it.
2006-12-15 21:47:51
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answered by sparks2228 2
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my ex quits his job every time he gets tracked down for child support, his mother says it isn't his responsibility to pay for the kids but guess what he is supporting some other woman's kids and they are not even his kids
2006-12-15 21:46:09
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answered by kat 6
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well.. My husband paid his ex wife child support EVERYWEEK for 5 years and never got a reciept ...she took him to court for more money until the judge told her she couldnt come back..and she got mad and claimed he didnt pay a dime and he went to jail for over a month..thyte said he could get out until every dime was paid,
2006-12-15 20:33:28
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answered by boydshit79 2
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we pay c/s for a daughter/step-daughter that we will probably never meet or know.
2006-12-15 20:42:48
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answered by nwnativeprincess 6
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in what way?
2006-12-15 20:32:53
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answered by rachie 4
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