2006-12-15 12:22:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
money honey
2006-12-15 12:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Very easily. Some people marry for necessity or convince. My parents married for that reason. They did not love each other when they married 31 years ago. They were companionable together, and knew that they would be a successful team. Years later, they learned to love one another, and are very much in love today.
My husband and I were engaged before we said I love you to each other. We knew we would be a good pair, and knew that the love would come. We are reasonable people with moderate attitudes. There was no reason why we should have thought that love would not follow. It did, and we are happy.
I'm not saying that it has been a cake walk, no marriage is. We work together, and do the best we can with what we have.
2006-12-15 20:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty easy to think you're "in love" with someone and marry him. Then you find out that you really know nothing about real love. You start learning and changing, and you realize that you didn't love the person when you married him because you didn't even know what love was.
2006-12-15 20:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Faith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't love a person doesn't mean that you don't love things about this person. Sometimes especially if you have been hurt before by a bad relationship it is hard to realize that you love someone. you are not as open any more.
2006-12-15 20:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never marry someone I didn't love. Love and friendship is the foundation of a marriage.
2006-12-15 20:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People Marry for many reasons. Because they want to look good at the office, so they don't die alone, so they can have kids, because they got pregnant, so they'd have someone to help them buy their dream home.
Sometimes you can't marry the person you love and sometimes ... they don't want to marry you.
2006-12-15 20:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people do it. There are arranged marriages happening all over the world. There is some truth in the saying that people will grow to love one another over time.
2006-12-15 20:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by KM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say much
did you marry a person you didn't love?
if you did all I can say,it always turns out to be a bg disaster,and it's not fair to your mate,and it's selfish, I had a friend,that a met a man when we were out together about a year ago,he tried to hit on me first, then he started talking to her,next thing I knew she had given him her phone num,I had not interest in him,so she started dating him,next thing I knew she tells me this guy wants to marry her,after 2 mos,so she married him he's a complete as_hole ,she cut off all of her friends,now she's in debt in miserable,so you should never marry anyone you don't love
it will only turn out to be a disaster,if you don't love your spouse
at least be honest with him/her and get out of the marriage
2006-12-15 20:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quite easy when you don't know the definition of love! Can you quote what even Webster defines love? However, there is arranged marriages! Did you know that more arranged marriages last longer than most non-arranged? Spooky huh?
2006-12-15 20:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us did it to survive. BOTH our parents; get out at age 18. We could not survive on our own. Marriage gave us a roof over our head. Love came later.
2006-12-15 20:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
PRAY TO GOD FOR THE REAL ANSWER THAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. BUT DO NOT MESS UP YOUR LIVES IF YOU DO NOT LOVE THIS PERSON LIKE YOU SHOULD. BECAUSE IF YOU MAKE YOURSELF UN HAPPY TO TRY AND PLEASE ANOTHER IT WILL JUST LEAD TO RESENTMENT, YOU NEED TO BE HONEST AND LET THE TRUTH BE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. IT WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST . TRUST IN THE LORD AND BE HAPPY FOR YOUR SELF. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-12-15 20:28:57 · answer #11 · answered by Jenni B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋