is that the best thing to do i have 7 kids one on way if god didnt want me to have kids i wouldnt have 7 now it is meant to be
2006-12-15 12:11:53 · 12 answers · asked by mnclbr25 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Think long and hard on that one!! I have 3 kids and when my youngest was born 5 yrs ago {same day} I had mine tied and cut. Now I can honestly say that is was the biggest mistake I have ever made. So take this last pregnancy and really think about it. We are now looking into having a reversal done but it looks like its costly. So unless you are absolutly sure you never want anymore children take birth control until you are really sure. good luck and congrats.
2006-12-15 13:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by country_gurl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that 7-8 kids is meant to be than why do you want a tubal ligation??
2006-12-15 12:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, no. Humans are like animals, we have sex and sex usually results in babies. You should take responsibility and use birth control. If you want that many kids, thats fine, if you can take care of them. Birth control works if you take it correctly or go with your own suggestion of tubal ligation.
2006-12-15 12:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by MIPerson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first congrats on 7 kids and one on the way. i wish i could have that many. second if you feel you have had enuf then a tubal is a good idea. if you want to leave it in gods hands then do so. it is your choice. dont listen to these idiots that tell you to stop having kids or other nonsense. if gods plan is for you to have 10 kids then god will provide you with 10 kids and the means to do so. we are never given more then we can deal with
2006-12-15 12:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you and your husband can afford them on your salaries then continue to have as many as you wish otherwise get the tubal ligation or use some form of birth control.
2006-12-15 12:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a personal decision noone can make it for you, everyone has different ideas about what is right and wrong. If you feel you have been blessed with the 8 children you have been given and dont want to have anymore then the choice is yours
2006-12-15 12:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by seemeinyourdreams19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it. Or you could go for a tubal banding, which is at least hypothetically surgically reversible. That way you wouldn't have any problems or conflicts with your religion.
2006-12-15 12:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on trying and have 21 kids like my mama and papa did.
I guess everything happens for a reason
2006-12-15 12:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your are blessed. Seven and one on the way. Unless you are striving for 12 apostles or as well off as the Kennedy's, I'd get those tubes tied.
2006-12-15 12:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to wake up in 10 years and have 15 kids, you might want to.
2006-12-15 12:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋