Am i bisexual?
the reasons why i think i'm bisexual are
-i'm attracted sexually to girls..i know that 4 sure
-i feel the urge to kiss my good friend when i'm around her (shes bisexual, but i havent told her i think i am)
-i have a crush on this "girl" from my school that dresses like a boy and bassically acts like a boy..she always flirts with me 2 but i act like i dont like it..
-also i had a bad experience with a guy last year he kind of forced me..well not forced he persuaded me to do something sexually that i didnt want to..i didnt like it at all it was horrible
i have made out with a few guys..one guy it was ok and he knew how to turn me on and stuff..but the other guys i have made out with i thought were really hot, but 4 some reason i didnt even like making out with them...
soo...i'm 15..do you think i'm bisexual..lesbian, or going through a phase and straight??
2006-12-15 12:05:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think your bi-curious. Strongly so, and in many ways we are what we think. That is, if you expected to not enjoy yourself with the young man (and I expect you did, or it wouldn't have been so hard for him to "convince" you to do the act) then you would not have enjoyed it. However, if you had looked forward to it, you may have been pleasantly surprised. Basically, I think your AT LEAST bi if not gay. Why? Because, we don't put ourselves in situations that we are "looking forward to" without a reason, and you are doing just that. You are setting yourself up for being a lesbian by hanging out with a bisexual girl and flirting with a butch chick at school. While I think it is "easier to accept bisexuality" in society, lets be honest with ourselves, not THEM. Its YOU who has to be happy with your life, not me, not your parents and not someone at school, but YOU. So, if you can look in the mirror and say, there goes a sweet, cute bisexual chick, then I'm happy for you. If its a phase, so what, enjoy it, life goes on and aren't labels for cans?
2006-12-15 12:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe bi-curious leaning towards lesbian. It seems like you're much more into women, but wouldn't rule out the possibility of dating the right guy. Just use whatever label you feel most comfortable with if you have to pick one.
2006-12-16 18:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are mostly gay, but like a few guys, tha good ones! lol! It probably has to do with what happenned with that guy! I hope that I helped! If not, thats just my opinion and I am probably wrong!
2006-12-15 12:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by §~You can't judge me!~§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋