I met my wife's sister first and was good friends with her and her husband. I had always found her extremely attractive and would spend time with them just to be near her. then I met her sister and she kind of looked like her so i was attracted. I began dating her and did so for a couple of months, but then she was going to get deported so I offered to marry her so she could stay, so we got married and she got to stay. Now it's been four years and i do love her even though i'm not a husband kind of guy. we had moved away from her sister so i never had to think about her until she got divorced and came to live with us. now I have a problem because I cant stop thinking about her and it's driving me crazy. I know i'm a scumbag but I dont control my feelings. I dont even know if she feels the same way about me because she gives me no signs that she does or does'nt, and when I do see some kind of flirting i'm wondering if it's just in my head or just extremely subtle.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
2006-12-15 11:18:50 · 18 answers · asked by letsgetthedoghigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
redneck love triangle at its finest
2006-12-15 11:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. You are not a scumbag, just a human being who may have made a mistake. I agree with some of the other answers. When your wife is away, then approach the sister and see if she feels the same way towards you. If she does, then you know what to do. If she doesn't, then you have a problem. Now two out of three know whats going on and thats not fair to your wife. You must ask the sister to keep it quiet to her grave. You must then keep your distance from the sister. It would be best if she moves out soon.
2006-12-15 11:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Karnak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, repeat married, your wifes sister is off limits, unless you plan to devorce your wife to be with her sister, which realy would make you a scumbag, in any way you cut it you come out being a scumbag, so good luck buddy.
2006-12-15 11:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by BB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sense lust, no longer love. you ought to disclose for your spouse that you by coincidence walked in on her sister. no matter if you admit for your allure is or may be risky. it really is time that you'll strongly propose that sister ought to leave for the coolest thing about your courting consisting of your spouse. you may only say that you want your privateness as a pair.
2016-10-18 08:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before i would do anything I would try to firgue out the relationship
that they have, do they talk a lot to each other ? about what?
before I made a move i would try to firgue out if you could trust the sister Would be very bad if she tells on you. get my meaning.
2006-12-15 11:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a pathetic looser.
you are headed down a very serious path.
don't forget, if the little wife finds out and files for divorce you can foot up some alamoney for a fiew years.
that ought to make her feel better.
2006-12-15 11:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
rule 1 -- dont come between sisters!!!they will kill you?
rule 2 watch "maury show" on tv--- see what the loozers are experincing!!
rule 3---grow up , be a MAN, and forget aboudait!!!
2006-12-15 11:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by richard c 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but it sounds like a good story for jerry Springer... is that where you wanna end up?
2006-12-15 11:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems there is awful lot of lusts here. do you love her or it's just an attraction? would you try talk to her? this may sort things out...i think.
2006-12-15 12:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ain't worth it. man just go in the bathroom and chose between your right or left hand and get it over with - you might feel better.
2006-12-15 11:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by dip_n_cecilia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to the sister and see if she feel the same way....... do not come on to her b/c you never know how she will react.....!!!! Leave everything open but talk to her in metaphors.
2006-12-15 11:29:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋