when i became a freshmen in high school i didn't have ANY friends. i finally found a group that had the same interests as me. rock n roll is what moved us. after a while, they started to get into drugs and alcohol and i blindly followed along. we've been through everything together in that group. we've been through all the different drugs that are out there. and now they're getting into the 'sex' thing. and i blindly followed along too...but now, almost two years later, and a hell of a lot of fighting, i'm no longer friends with that 'crowd'. i have no idea how to start over in highschool, mainly because everybody knows of my bad reputation. and also mainly because my friends were the 'popular' group. my parents refuse to switch me out of that school...and now i'm the biggest Loser at our school. i understand what i did was wrong, but nobody thinks i'm telling the truth. i have no idea what to do and i feel so alone. all this came from...music? does anyone have any advice?
2006-12-15 11:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by sami 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say the ebst thing to do is to talk to a school counselor. Maybe he or she can give you a few words of advice.
If not, it sounds like you are in your second year of high school. Maybe it's time you knuckled down , did your studies, got some good grades and forget about what other people think of you. You might need to become a 'loner' for a short period. Gradually, other people will forget about you and have their own thing to do. Perhaps you will mae other nfriends who aren't into drugs and sex. Being into rock and roll is great,but don't abuse it. I am a rock and roll person myself.
Don't try to win a popularity contest. That's wrong. Just be yourself and concentrate on your studies.
You may be surprised as to the outcome if you do so. (in a good way).
Remember: driugs and alcohol are no good for you! Music is great! Do you play an instrument? Guitar? Drums, etc?
Perhaps offer to teach others music lessons.
2006-12-15 11:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by vgordon_90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because ignorant people always use it as a cliche to express how jaded they are of life when in reality they are just want to appear cool and above everyone else. Or they are trashy. Joan Jett & the Blackhearts - I Love Rock N Roll 1 - Yes, synth if the situation calls for it. That word is a b*tch to spell. 2 - Yes. Peace is not free.
2016-03-29 08:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time for people to believe that you changed.
Keep doing well and they will come around. Try joining a couple of clubs or a local youth group.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 11:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck I just started over at 43 years old.
2006-12-15 11:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't blame music for your bad behavior.
take responsibility for your own actions.
you have the reputation that you deserve and it will be up to you to fix what you broke.
it took time to make a mess of things and it will time to regain the respect of others.
2006-12-15 11:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all of your problems were not from music...they were from your own tendency of "following the crowd" even if they were your "friends."
2006-12-15 11:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by A7X Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
roll a joint..put on some Bob Marley..erverytings gonna be awlrite..mon
2006-12-15 11:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by kneelandbob69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya quit blaming it on the music for one its not the music its your choice in friends.
2006-12-15 11:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by tonya w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck, because im in that kind of group.
2006-12-15 11:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get your education, graduate get on with yaself and eventually they forget.
2006-12-15 11:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by BIG WILLIE THE GEORGIA TITIAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋