I bought one last year and he kinda got upset and said "You know we already talked about not getting one another a band because we dont know if were going to last"
So i took it back. I was hurt.Weve been married nearly 18 years.
This year, i havent said any thing about a band. We are still not doing that great. Should i try to get a band this year?
2006-12-15 11:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by Crissy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He just came home and i asked him. and He said he still felt the same way.
I told him."Either you accept me flaws and all or its done.
2006-12-15 11:28:48 · update #1
What the.... is his problem! You have been with this man for 18years and he don't want to show it to the world. The band is a reflection of your present bond between you two; how does anyone really know if you will last longer? Even though you two are not doing great you are still together right, love each other right, still want to be together right then what when does he want a band when you are both 70 years old and can say O!K! know i will wear a band. Tripping this man has some other issues with wearing the band that he is not telling you about.
2006-12-15 11:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by oreo29 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that's a really horrible thing of him to say.
so if he's not sure it's going to last, what is he sticking around for? what are YOU sticking around for?
do you really want to be with this man?
don't bother with a ring for him.
you do for yourself what you think you're worth. what are YOU worth?...
2006-12-15 19:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just get your husband a big screen TV!!!that is a good present
2006-12-15 19:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by crazyasianchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should you? He doesn't want one.
2006-12-15 19:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by floof3r 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, i'd give him a divorce
2006-12-15 19:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋