i dont believe in abortion, and i wanna keep the baby i mean i have 1 year of school left and i do have more than enough money to support a child i just dont no how to tell him, please give suggestions
2006-12-15 10:24:35 · 19 answers · asked by sonni 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you just have to come out and tell him, theres no easy way. and if he wants kids he will stay with you, and if not then he's losing out.
2006-12-15 10:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by kristinad21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is no easy way to tell him. If he loves you he will be there for you and help you. God bless you for not taking the easy way out with an abortion. You may not have planned for a baby just now but you are blessed. You will love this perfect mistake like no other.
2006-12-15 18:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's going to be really hard, no matter what. best case scenario is that he just hasn't expressed this desire, or wants to wait. don't let him guilt you into doing something you wouldn't tell your best friend or sister to do. you are the one who has to wake up with this every day for the rest of your life. worst case: he walks away. it will be hard, but definitely worth it...i'm a mom of an almost 4 year old, and she has given me more joy than i ever though possible, even when she's frustrating.
bottom line: be honest. try the other idea of asking him to pick up a test because you're late. but he's going to need to know...before anyone else...not your best friend or mom or anyone else. the child is half his too...don't forget that - but it's your body.
2006-12-15 18:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by allie's mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is for you. Are you willing to have a baby without him? The best way of letting him know would be just to come out and tell him, or do what I did. Tell him you missed your period and you need him to pick up a pregnancy test. That way you take the test together and you "find out" together. Good luck with bearing the news and good luck with your pregnancy. :)
2006-12-15 18:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by julia marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! How long have you been with your boyfriend? You've never talked about the possibility of having kids and how you both felt about it? That's strange to me. Anyway, just let him know you're pregnant, you say you can afford the baby yourself so what ever he has to say is exactly that, "what he has to say" and nothing more.
2006-12-15 18:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to tell your boyfriend is to be honest about it don't give it up or get rid of it if he don't want to stand by you then hes not worth it because the baby didn't ask to be made and its gods gift if you get rid of the child you will regret it if not now you will later on
2006-12-15 18:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by vita w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him over to your, ...whereever you live (apt dorm house etc).... and ask him if he's ready to be a dad. Or call him on the phone and say very casually "hey Dad" "hows it going dad" etc. and so forth. Thats how I did it to my fiance. ;) Before he was my fiance;) lol. He came home after work he bought a bottle of grape juice ya know the kind in the wine bottle...and we had a beautiful dinner. I'm three months now.
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2006-12-15 18:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are pregnant and you plan to keep your child. You would like him to be in the childs life.
2006-12-15 18:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oopps...what happened to birth control? Well he's as responsible as you in this case then. You tell him - but ultimately you make the decision..and best of luck to you.
2006-12-15 18:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be honest with him...you never know he might be excited about the news...having a baby is a wonderful experience!! Just let him know how u feel and im sure he'll be understanding if not happy...
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-15 18:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jenisezza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋