2006-12-15 10:20:38 · 23 answers · asked by Debbie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
smack myself for being that dumb...sorry but you asked what I would do :)
2006-12-15 10:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never good to fall for a married man, cause u could suffer the same fate as his poor wife, who he is deceiving and lying to so he can be with you. if he truly was serious about u, he would get a divorce and make u his wife, but cheaters always seem to find a reason to cheat, they will always find some kind of falt with who they are married to, theres always an excuse, i would run as fast as i could away from him, don't think he wouldn't do the same thing to u, don't think u are better than the wife. don't devalue yourself and settle for this, get someone to love u where there is no competiton, or wife. when u build your relationship on the pain and humiliation of another it always comes back to u. you will not be allowed to be happy cause u are causing someone else some real pain and hurt. there are enough men out there where u don't have to love someone who isn't really yours.
2006-12-16 00:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading all the other's answer I agree with them.... I am married man and Very happy with my wife and woman like you come to me and fall in love with me. I would tell you right now is no longer see each other. Because It took me 5 years to have her back in my life and guess what now it been 9 years of marriage 2 beauitful kids and third due next year in april.... do you think i want to end my marriage and go with woman who don't make 100,000 a year and i maked 40,000 a year and you know i am glad didin't do anything stupid. so That is the truth smiling. good luck making that right choice.
2006-12-15 10:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with a married man & he is in love with me. I left my husband before this affair began, and I at this point dont know if he will ever leave his wife. The truth is sometimes we meet the person we are supposed to be with when you are with the person you are not supposed to be with. You need to find out first if he loves you as well or just wants sex from you.. my advice most people would not agree with but I say follow your heart, the rest is in faits hands.........
2006-12-15 10:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop seeing him. Falling for a married man is just setting yourself up for heartache. Most married men will not leave their wives. I would walk away and tell him that unless he brings you divorce papers, signed by the judge, your done with him. Good Luck.
2006-12-15 10:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN RUN RUN as fast as you can in the other direction. A married man 9 times out of 10 will NOT leave their wives like they act like they will or even say they will. All odds are against you. Even IF he leaves his wife for you, he'll most likely do you the same way & cheat on you just as he is trying to do her. Be careful & watch out for yourself.
2006-12-16 08:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help to fall in love with someone, but you do have the control not to get involved. Married men won't divorce their wives. Stay away and find someone who is more available to you!
2006-12-15 11:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him and find a single man who is available to love and who will love you. You do not want to get involved with someone who is already taken. Wouldn't you rather be someone's #1 instead of coming behind their wife and family??
2006-12-15 10:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Let them go about there marriage. If they were to get a divorce then you may be able to act, but never mess with anyone that is in a relaionship in the first place! You dont want to be known as a home recker!
2006-12-15 10:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it without ANYONE ever knowing. You are set up for misery and possibly violence. You will be hurt and you will not get the man, no matter what he says or what you think. Why would you want a man that you already know will cheat?
2006-12-15 10:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Forget about him. Find someone available to you 100%.
I always thought that people who fall for unavailable partners had some self-esteem issues. Might want to think about that one. Like they don't "deserve" a partner 100% and are willing to take leftovers.
2006-12-15 10:23:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋