If I put her out of my house she would have no where else to go. Please positive answers.
2006-12-15 10:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-12-15 10:49:43 · update #1
You see to be a nice and a kind person.. after all u have done for her she talks ill about u behind Ur back. Its a shame some people are ungrateful and messed up in the head.. You need to com front her and tell her exactly what u heard. U also need to ask her to stop taking ill about you or else u would throw her out. What u need to understand is that she is not a friend to begin with ...just be be-careful of her she might be capable of causing you other damages. God Bless U.
2006-12-15 10:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard it or someone tell you they heard your friend? If you heard it then ask confront her. If someone said they heard it.. tell her that you were concerned about something that may be going on and ask her about it, but don't accuse her.
Just because someone may not have any place to go doesn't mean you have to let them live with you. If you're doing this out of kindness and you're being not treated well then you have the right to ask the person to leave or at least set some ground rules (like not discussing you in your home etc.) It appears this person isn't too greatful and you might think about showing your kindness to someone who else who'd appreciate it more!
2006-12-15 10:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by ~Me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should confront her. If not u, who will. Just tell her that u heard her talking bad about u, and that u still want 2 b friends but u will not put up w/ that. If she is a real friend, she will understand. Good Luck! :-)
2006-12-15 10:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by *Kendall* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Say something like:
"You have been a good friend and I would hate for anything to get in the way of that. The other day I overheard you say blah blah and I want to know if there is any problem between us that I should be aware of. I am sure that you did not intend for me to hear this, but it bothers me and I want to hear your side of things so that I can better understand."
2006-12-15 10:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend can tell you what is the matter with you in a minute. He may not seem such a good friend after telling.
2006-12-15 10:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you know what she's been saying and she has one chance to fess up. If she get snippy...she's no friend of yours. I'm trying my best to give you a positive answer....*bites tongue*
2006-12-15 10:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what u heard and then ask her why she said it....until u find out why she said what she said, dont do anything just yet.. not til she confesses... then u decide what u want to do.. for the best of both of u.. okay...
2006-12-15 14:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes confront her.
2006-12-15 10:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her off any "friend"that talks bad about you is no friend
2006-12-15 15:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her you know what has been going around.. then let her tell her side of the story.. you should forgive her this one time...
2006-12-15 10:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋