My wife has made several committs lately that she is not being satisfied sexually. Also, I have noticed her being extra friendly with guys when we are out, and also to some of my friends. I will admitt that I am not very well endowed, could this have anything to do with it?
2006-12-15 10:11:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't believe all the lies about how size does not matter. Size does matter to a lot of women.
2006-12-15 10:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by RightLeft 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say no because, it's not like you've shrunk since you got married. So she knew that you weren't well endowed when you married. But it may play into it a little. My husband is a little on the short side as well, but I still married him. But lately, I've been thinking of messing around, not because of his size, but because of his lack of stamina. Our sex is great when we have it, but my problem is how often we have it and how long it lasts. I'm a very sexual person, but my husband and I have sex maybe once or twice a month. So I'm sitting for three weeks all hot and horny, and then we have sex, and it lasts for 2 minutes, maybe. Come on. So I've been telling him he's not satisfying me and I mean I've went out and bought toys so that I can handle it myself, but even I get tired of that. It's not the real thing and that is what I enjoy. So if she's hinting that she's not being satisfied, you'd better hurry up and figure out what needs to be done before it's to late.
2006-12-15 10:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by WinterRaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should have nothing to do with anything, and if she is basing her happiness on passion, than it is so unfair and so immature
. she is just trying to find reasons or justify reasons to cheat. don't pick on yourself, and believe that u are any less of a man than a man more endowed. franlky i would not want someone for myself who was big, size doesn't matter. i would worry, as the writing is on the wall. that is really an insult to you that she says she isn't satisfied, but what does she have to base this on? just like saying i do not value or love u anymore. need counciling, or best yet u need to go find someone where theres not so much pressure to perform.
2006-12-15 10:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extra Friendly??? Put a stop to it or she will cheat on you.If your already suspectingthis start checking phone numbers on the bill. the 500 phone calls to that strange number is him(or her) call it with her phone. Get ready for a surprise!!!
2006-12-15 10:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might but it is about quality not quantity. my husband is not very well endowed but when he actually wanted to have sex he could satisfy me quite nicely. Time to talk openly and honestly with her. But actually listen to what she has to say if you can realistically fix it then fix it. see my husband isn't interested in fixing it lately and things are getting pretty lonely.
2006-12-15 10:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doubtful! friendly is one thing...doing something is another!
it's awful she should say such a thing to you though and further hurt your confidence. take her to a toy/lingerie shop for some ideas on enhancing your romantic times together if you or she might like to try such a thing. couldnt hurt. or try giving her some romance novels to read while youre around and spend more time with her. maybe you need two need to show kindness to each other. good luck
2006-12-15 10:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that should really be a problem on your end. Just make sure that you do what is necessary to make her happy. With the size issues, well that is pretty shallow for her to consider for her to cheat on you.
2006-12-15 10:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....I would not worry about it. Its not what you got down there, it is what you do with it, that matters. Try to please her more, with oral sex, get some toys, something different. Maybe you can watch some pornographic materials to see how you can improve on yourself sexually, help you to help her. I don't think she is cheating, I just think she wants better sexual relations with you. Good luck
2006-12-15 10:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her! ask her if she feels like she needs another man adn if she says yes then talk to her about what you all can do to keep that from happening try new things that may help in the bedroom and ask her what she would like
good luck
2006-12-15 10:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry never stopped anything.
2006-12-15 10:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋