If your husband/boyfriend developed peyronie's disease, and sex became impossible, would you stick by him and support his choice either way regarding surgery, or leave him?
2006-12-15 10:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It would depend on his attitude about pleasing me. He couldnt just ignore the fact that I have needs.
2006-12-15 15:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first instinct is to say that I'd stay with him. And if this were the only issue, I'd have to say yes. Definitely, I'd stay.
However, an issue like this would probably make a man very difficult to live with. Men tend to measure their manhood with their penis, and when it doesn't work properly, it tends to affect the rest of their personality and their lives. Some will resort to drinking or drugs and to other self destructive actitudes that can make it very hard for a woman to stand by him.
If he otherwise remained the man I loved, though, I would not hesitate to stay with him. After all, love is not sex, and both can take many varied forms that do not require a functioning penis.
2006-12-15 13:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i would stick with him im not sure what that disease is exactly but. my husband has had trouble at times because of his b/p.. and i am ok with it. i cant say it doesnt get frustrating at times but i married a man not a penis and if i cant stand not having sex i can always take care of myself.. so why would i not stay> any woman who would leave for this reason only isnt worth keeping anyway
2006-12-16 15:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With out a shadow of a doubt I would stay with him. You don't quit loving someone because they get a disease and can't have sex. True love is more then sex.
2006-12-15 12:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship. If you love your husband, if your communication is good and if your relating is stable - I would stay with him. You can learn to pleasure each other sexually in many different ways.
2006-12-17 07:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tina L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stick with my husband. I married him because I love him, we would find a way to deal with it and continue our lives together
2006-12-16 09:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by eeeeeeeeclipse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave him if I loved him. He can't help it. I'm sure he would be more scared of me leaving because of it, than actually having it. Besides, he can always use his hands, lol. Or even get a toy.
2006-12-15 13:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what this disease is, but if I really loved him I would stay with him.
2006-12-15 12:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Gemini Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isnt about sex. Therefore I stand by him.
2006-12-19 02:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by miladybc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋