I Know this girl who happens to be friend.. she is been married for the past 2 years now, and she started already cheating on her husband. She spoke to me about this man who she met, and that some what she happens to like him cause he seems to be interesting..Who by the way is married too. They haven't been intimate yet , but obviously i can see where this is leading 2. My question is how can some people do this and behave everything is normal. What happen to our morals and self- respect.. Do such people even feel Guilty .. Or is it just me who is too serious in life?
2006-12-15 09:59:49 · 12 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I understand where your coming from as I have been that other woman and now have a friend who is participating in a relationship like that. In my case I didnt know he was married untill his wife called me and that was the end I felt so disgusted not only with myself but with him for pulling me into the drama. Now my friend who is married with a child is starting up with this man old enough to be her father who has a family , she claims to call it off but then he shows up with a prada bag and gifts and she lets him kiss her. To me this little bit of attention and excitement that she is having now will not compare to the devestation it could cause both sets of familys . I hope your friend and mine come to their senses before more people get hurt.
2006-12-15 10:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by mamiluv6969 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
This question isn't about morals, it's about human spirit. Life was not designed to be about settling down and staying put. Life is about experience, adventure and overcoming fear. Your friend is obeying an instinctive call that you and many others have been taught to ignore so that you can fit into the society you live in.
I'm not excusing what she's doing (if she's actually doing anything at all. you did say they haven't been intimate yet) coz it isn't very nice, but that's her karma not yours. Let her live her way and you live yours.
2006-12-15 20:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by q 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wake up to the real world. In the fifties, something like 40% of children where not those of the husband. People are not what they appear to be. Everyone has a public and a private face/life whether they admit it or not. Only the movies depict perfect people, I've never met one.
Though I have met allot of people that think they are.
2006-12-15 18:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by crct2004 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This has been going on for a very long time, unfortunately! And not just men or just women!
That being said, yes, I think it's disgusting! I can understand if it happens ONCE (not sure I would understand if it were my boyfriend, though), but if it's a habit... I don't see the point in getting married, then, or of having a relationship.
2006-12-15 19:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Offkey 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Man is basically an animal. Education and discretion ought to make him a human being with dignity and morals. But basic animal instinct always remains hidden underneath. In some people this instinct is over powering. Particularly in the matters of sex this is most common.
2006-12-16 00:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Brahmanda 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot judje people based on what you would or would not do. She is not a/your child, she has her own personality and can make her own choices. Some people are afraid of commitment and only focus on the bad things about people. Soon, they focus on it so much they want someone else.Why would these people marry? Well, they cannot see the faults and they marry, but then faults are exposed and the vows do not mean a thing.
2006-12-15 18:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you can probaly do is just sit and listen to what your friend has to say. Find out the reasons for acting the way she is.
2006-12-15 18:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Zacheria 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything must eventually decay, fall, and die. Including the morals of the earth's human population.
Depressing isn't it? At least we are not all morally dead yet.
2006-12-15 18:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Comes from upbringing. You were obviously taught morals or you may have learned them on the way. some people aren't as fortunate.
2006-12-15 18:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by ... 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
This has been going on since the beginning of time and will forever be...
If it makes you uncomfortable, ask your friend not to talk to you about it.
2006-12-15 18:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋