He moved out, is seeing another woman (ten months now) but he invites me to coffee and says that if I am nicer to him he may think about coming back but he has no intention of dropping the other woman in the meantime. Is it me or is he nuts?
2006-12-15 09:57:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't completely avoid him because we have two kids, 2 and 5
2006-12-15 10:09:40 · update #1
Yep..
Crazy as a bedbug.
2006-12-15 09:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be able to decide what he wants to do, so he is not dropping her either as he is very insecure, wanting to make sure he has somebody. but if he were truly sincere and really wanted to make a go of it, he would have to regain your trust, and that would mean he had to drop her. he is thinking of coming back, but wants to make sure it will work out. but this isn't exacly how u move back into the life u had, he has to be the one to regain your trust, and he would need to stop doing what he is doing. i would tell him i will pass on it, and say no thank you. he is not thinking clearly, shows lack of maturity, and bad character. he wants to make sure u and he will be able to get along before he dumps the girlfriend.
2006-12-15 12:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, ask him to take a hike. He is nuts alright and a real big one too. Who does he think he is and is he treating you like a "booty call"?
He wants someone to be nicer to him, he can get a dog... a stuff dog that is.
2006-12-15 10:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya he nuts, dont stoop down to him, he sounds like hes trying to make up stuff and blame you, and be able to have another women on the side.
Now weather your cool with another chick, thats you, but other then that, ya hes just nuts.
2006-12-15 10:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Suppa K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's crazy and lost his mind somewhere down the road. Personally he'd of had a face full of coffee if he dared tried to tell me something so insane.
2006-12-15 10:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's both nuts and quite stupid for saying it, thinking it and expecting it. What an egomaniac. !!!!
Tell him he's just looking for a headless woman and to move on before you call his g/f.
2006-12-15 10:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's completely nuts - tell him to take his offer and stick it where the sun doesn't shine. Then call his present g/f and see what SHE thinks about his little offer.
2006-12-15 10:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is nuts. He basically wants you to kiss hiss *** and them maybe just maybe he'll live with you while screwing his other woman....wow what a treat! How kind of him....this guy sounds like a real ***, ditch him.
2006-12-15 10:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he thinks you are crazy. That is ridiculous. Don't blame you for thinking he's nuts.
2006-12-15 10:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You if you ever take this dude back. Him if he thinks that's the way to treat a woman.
2006-12-15 10:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have let him treat you like crap for so long he now knows he can get away with anything.
Time to wake up and move on
2006-12-15 10:00:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋