seems like its a normal thing to cheat.
everyone has done it at least once.
2006-12-15 09:40:52 · 18 answers · asked by canuckclint 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i get this from surveys
about 60% or so have cheated
2006-12-15 10:05:18 · update #1
i haven't cheated and am planning
staying a virgin till marriage..it's freakin hard
2006-12-15 10:05:48 · update #2
there is not as much it's more people are more open about it I'm 45 and found out both my grandparents there sisters and brothers all cheated some even had gotton divorced and remarried and kept it quiet within the family of today. also there where some that had children out of wedlock this was also taboo to talk about I'm sure all families have these dark secrets if they were investigated.
2006-12-15 10:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by twister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why there are so many people cheating on each other is simple they have gotten tired of the same old routine over and over again, if it isn't arguements, its the husband/wife tripping out or you just have grown out of love for that person and they are looking for some new excitement in there lives that somehow got mixed up in the shuffle.
It is easy now then it was years ago when people just stuck it out no matter what now it this time nobody really does unless they want to....And that is almost a few now.
If it seems so normal to you it is because it has become normal when people come to a turning point in there lives and things aren't working like they used to then the go looking and sometimes it is for the best.
If you do choose to stay a virgin until you get married that doesn't mean that your marriage will be any different from anybody elses simply because you will be happy for a while then give it 5 to 10 years if it makes it that long and you will too want to find a way out...Trust me it happens and there is really not that many happy couples in the world today that never had any problems in there marriage if they didn't I sure would love that secret..But pay attention as your time passes you by after you get married and see if you stay happy and with a good relationship or do things change up and you both get tired of each other. I know that I sound like a grinch or worse but I have had so many of my friends who have had a relationship or married and they ended up unhappy and miserable, and what for? I am also one of them and I am doing every thing I can to hold on with my mine and I have been with my husband for 18 years. The only thing I can tell you is good luck with your hold out because your are going to lose your virginity before you are married I don't know who do you think you are fooling! And if you find a good wife it will last maybe 5 even 10 years and that will be good till one of you do something wrong....just pay attention.
2006-12-15 19:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God and church are no longer of interest in the home.It's all about entertainment,amusement,and where are we going to eat at tonight.To many husbands and fathers not taking the lead in the home to promote morals and values.It's all about sports and a night out.My wife and I were one of the fortunate couples.The reason I have said what I did was because we have experienced this first hand.Please excuse me for I am not trying to preach here but I believe this to be a major problem with infidelity today.
2006-12-15 17:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there are too many men like my husband, he's be complaining about work since I walked through the door 30 minutes ago, and he doesn't want to go out for dinner, a walk, any reason. Doesn't want to get cuddly on the couch. He's got a headache. He only wants to sit on the couch and watch tv. I've given up on trying to have any kind a relationship with him I'm starting to search else where. Right now he is merely a roommate.
2006-12-15 17:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when the fire at home is dwindling and there's no communication there will be infidelty. And most of the problems sorry to say belongs to the guy. If he would be home more often, and communicate with the wife and make the bedroom hotter. Well why go somewhere else. So communication is a big factor
2006-12-15 18:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no infidelity in my relationship. I have been married to my husband for 7 years and we have been together as a couple for 12 years. I have never cheated and neither has he. Not everyone cheats.
2006-12-15 17:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not cheated and (I believe) I have never been cheated on. I have gone for the "nice guys" even the "geeks" at times. Now I'm in love with a wonderful Asian man who values the same things I value.
It is hard to find someone who has not ever cheated... but it's even harder to find someone who has not cheated OR been cheated ON. Here I am... and yes, I do believe in Karma.
2006-12-15 17:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by partydudette52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's more infidelity today than there was 20 years ago. I just think it's more in-your-face with the internet and tv media. I've told my husband before if given the choice I would rather he leave me than cheat. Personally, I'd never do it because it would break my heart if I ever hurt him.
2006-12-15 17:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfornately infidelity is the norm these days. People who cheat don't have any respect for their spouses or themselves for that matter. People just do what they want when they want and you can't do that in a marriage. Not everybody cheats...I've never cheated.
2006-12-15 18:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bond between the two people are not strong. When things go wrong in a relationship people tend to look somewhere else instead of fixing the problem with there spouse
2006-12-15 18:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋