i had twins 13 months ago and i thing that i am suffering from really really delayed post partum deppression, i've been really unhappy for the past few months and i dont ever want to have sex anymore, what should i do ?
2006-12-15 09:12:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Postpartum depression doesn't just necessarily happen within the first couple months...but there could be other contributing factors, too. With toddling twins, it's likely you and your husband dont' spend as much time touching/cuddling and just being alone with eachother as you used to. If not, start there, and see if re-establishing some "everyday intimacy" outside of the bedroom helps both your mood and your sex drive. If it doesn't, take it to the next level and consult your doctor. There are solid, helpful ways to deal with postpartum depression these days...best of luck to you, and I hope your family has a great holiday season.
2006-12-15 09:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking after a baby is very tiring, I can not even begin to imagine 2 baby's, you must be exhausted most of the time, and of course sex is not on the list of priorities, and your hubby needs to get you help in some way so that not all your attention is taken up by your infant and helpless children, I would suggest you talk to him and tell him How you feel, what you need, and what it will take to get you back to a normal sexual feeling. if he can see the problem maybe he can help with the solution
2006-12-15 09:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have a 3 year old one is enough,any my wife and i are still going thru a tough time but when we get the chance its wonderfull.my wife was post partum get the help,i also went to the docter and found i was also depressed.we are both getting help and its worth it,get help now, i wish the best for you and your family.
2006-12-15 14:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by bstcrpntr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having depression of any kind you need to have some pro-help. dont let this go by anymeans.
This can be over come with proper treatment.
Seek help and soon you will see some happiess return.
good luck but get yourself some professional help.
2006-12-15 09:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋