what should i do?
2006-12-15 08:25:35 · 18 answers · asked by madman 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well, if you haven't had the sex talk yet, I would suggest doing so. Otherwise...congrats on having a hormonal teen! If you find anything gross in their laundry basket...make them do their own laundry.
2006-12-15 09:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it back, and pretend you never found it. I'm sorry but as a parent you should trust your child enough to not go searching through their stuff a.k.a room. I mean come on! There is nothing wrong with it......its not the end of the world I would say over 90% of the total population has atleast watched porn once! Give your child "the talk"....make sure they will/are using protection if it comes down to that. But don't w/e you do don't let them know you found it. Its really not anything to be ashamed about at least I don't think so. But I know to some people its a sin.....lol
2006-12-15 22:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ignore it. Especially if you are talking about a 15 year old boy. It is normal for a 15 year old to have porn. There is no point to try to stop it. Confronting him would only make things worse. He is a teenager. You didn't do that kind of stuff when you were a teenager? It's natural!
2006-12-15 21:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Megan D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a fifteen year old boy with a LOT of porn in my room, I suggest to just leave him alone. It is fine for someone at the curious adolescent period to look at porn. Curiousity is probably the reason he has it anyway.
2006-12-15 17:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by k dawg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, let them explore cause then you could make this curious phase into an embarrassing experience. If you start noticing that they begin to look at porn 24/7 and they start to detach themselves and only spend time online then I would be concerned but for now leave the exploring up to him/her.
2006-12-17 23:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by fanofdegrassi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's 15 years old, what do you expect? (no disrespect intended)
Your kid is going to look at porn whether you like it or not, so i suggest that you should tell him off, then get an older male (father or father figure if possible) to have a chat with him about it. (even if it's just to tell him how to hide it better.
2006-12-16 03:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard for you to understand but porn is very normal for teen (preteens everyone) to look at. Don't get mad about it. Just calmly ask about it. Let your child know its not okay but don't get them in trouble. At 15 you have urges. Trust me, it could be a lot worse.
2006-12-15 18:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by tictac_lvr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i say forget u found it. first off, ur child will not only b embaressed they will b pissed off u were wondering around their room n think u dont trust them. second, its perfectly natrual, they r only pictures i mean who hasnt looked at porn? third, its not a horrible thing. looking at magazines is harmless its not like there a freak or discusting. let it go.
2006-12-15 19:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by hazel_eyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone. It's perfectly natural for a teenager to be interested in that stuff. You know you were too. Just spare them the embarassment, and forget you even found it.
2006-12-15 16:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Confront the 15 yo, discuss why it is there (don't let them say they didn't know about it) and then get rid of it. It is not healthy for them.
2006-12-15 19:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋