My asshole father made my boss change my schelde to only weekends and I realy hate him for doing this because I have to do things over the weekends like Community Service, SATs, and involing myself with my job as a youth speaker for my schools Gay-Striaght Alliance. When I applied for the job I picked Monday, Wendsday,Friday, and Sunday to work so I would have more money because I only get paid 7.50 a hour. Now I get less money because I work 41/2 hours on friday, and 7 hours for both Saturday and Sunday.
2006-12-15 08:16:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No I don't think your parents should be allowed to talk to your boss about giving you less hours and working on the weekend. I think your parents should came to you frost and talk about it with you not your boss. I would be really made too. If youare really busses on the weekend. Well good luck whit what every happened. I hope you find my thing a little helpful.
2006-12-15 08:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are under 18, I would say your parents do have the right to do this, although talking to you before hand would have been nice. I noticed that you called your father a nasty name, which suggests that you two are not on very good terms already. Perhaps he does not approve of some of the activities you are involved in and did it to keep you from participating in them. On the other hand, perhaps your school work is suffering because of your job. As a student at any level, your first priority is your studies (yes I am a parent of 3). I'm sure you've heard this lecture before. This is an important step toward leaving home and supporting yourself on more than a Wal-Mart greeter salary. You can't short change it, even for worthwhile activities. Pre-arrange to have a quiet talk with your father. ("Dad, could we sit down after dinner tonight. I would like to talk to you about some things that are important to me".) I strongly suggest that when you talk to him you always present your argument from the "I" position; "I feel", "I think", etc. rather than the "You" position; "you do", "you did", "you always". This way you will be presenting your feelings and your desires and he won't be put in the position where he has to defend himself, which always results in the parental authority card being pulled out. Do your utmost not to get into a fight. Explain why your interests are so important to you. Open communication is crucial. Then you must accept his authority. It won't be long and you will be on your own.
2006-12-15 08:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he was just trying to look out for you. Maybe he feels that you need to be home on the week days. He is your father, he do what ever he wants to. Be glad that you have one I lost mine when I was 12, I wish I could still see him, I would even like to be yelled at by him.. He is your father, not an a**hole
2006-12-15 08:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by itza_mea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can do anything they wish, as long as you are under their roof. Be grateful you have parents that care enough about your future to limit your work schedule. You will have plenty of time to work when you reach adult age and go out into the world on your own. BTW, I would watch with the name calling..........
2006-12-15 08:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by beeotch 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. If your under 18, then yes your parents do have the right to do this. But, if your over 18 then there's nothing they can do about your work schedule.....Sorry!
2006-12-15 08:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Amber R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a minor your parents can do whatever they want, as long as their not breaking any laws, and he's not. Sorry, I kow it sucks. Have you asked him why he did it? Maybe some communication would be beneficial.
2006-12-15 08:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get your check go and find a apartment and call your boss let him know you need your seclude changed and get out of the house and do you
2006-12-15 08:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your boss. Tell him your application indicated that you were willing to work Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday. Tell him that your father is not speaking for you.
2006-12-15 08:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by trigam41 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think he should have the right to do that. He should be happy that you are even out there trying to make your money. Talk to him, and ask him what his reason for this was, and try to make a compromise with your schedule
2006-12-15 08:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Helsinki_Love 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
children who call their fathers a**holes deserve what they get. Sorry your schedule is messed up but you're disrespectful and need to be straightened out.
2006-12-15 08:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Little Alice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋