2006-12-15 08:12:03 · 39 answers · asked by fire51104 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll bet she wants to make love in the dark huh?
Tell her you love the way she looks (and really mean it). Jump in the shower with her and wash her up. Walk in where she's changing with yourself on full "WOOD" hold and caress her (try you best not to try and bone her), tell her you love her and she's still your pretty girl, kiss her on the cheek and go back to doing what you are doing (understand, if she starts getting horny, serve her the pepperoni on the spot).
You can help her get past her shyness if you make her more comfortable about her body.
2006-12-15 08:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did this when i was with my first husband, and it was because I did not feel completely comfortable with him seeing me naked. I am a very modest person. Do you let her know how beautiful you think she is? Do you let her know you also think she has a beautiful body. She just may be a very shy person. Talk to her. Ask her why. Tell her it bothers you that she hide her body from you, that you love to look at her body. Try taking a shower with her, wash her body and then dry it for her. Help her to see that she does not have to hide herself from you. You must make her know you think she is a beautiful and sexy woman, inside and out. Hope I have been helpful. Don't give up. Merry Christmas!!!
2006-12-15 08:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by anna s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Has this always been the case? Or is this something recent?
If it's always been the case, then it's probably that sometimes she just wants privacy.. Or maybe it's "that time of the month"?
If it's recent, or it it hasn't always been this way, maybe she's shy about something. Has she gained a few pounds? Even if you haven't noticed, maybe she has? Or is there a "flaw" she's uncomfortable with? For example, I got really bad stretch marks when I was pregnant, and even though I'm in great shape now and have lost all of my baby weight, my stomach is still a bit saggy and jiggly, and I'm VERY self conscious about it.
If you think it's something she's self conscious about it, rather than just being shy, maybe just reassure her from time to time that you think she's beautiful, etc.
2006-12-15 08:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has very low self esteem. She is not comfortable in her own skin. She does not think her body is beautiful . You can help her by being patient and letting her know how beautiful you think she is and how sexy she looks. I have no idea how long you have been married. If it is a short time and you have no children, it will change as she becomes more and more comfortable with you, If you have been married a long time, then you just have to do what I said. A lot of women are shy about nudity. Tell her how much you enjoy seeing her beautiful body.
2006-12-15 08:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your wife could be very self conscience about her body. Maybe in the past she has a bad experience and is shy when it comes to being completely in the buff with the lights on, etc. She could feel vulnerable to a point. Make sure that you are not making crude male type remarks that are made to make women think that they are only wanted for there bodies. She might need you to make more compliments to her about her body when she is dressed as well as undressed. Assure her that she is completely safe around you and that your RESPECT every ounce of her body.
2006-12-15 08:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with her? Has she have any kids after you both got married? It could be that she is no longer comfortable with her body, especially if she had kids and have gained weight as a result. She might be thinking that you no longer finds her attractive.
Sit her down, hold her close to you, let her know that you love her more than when you just met her (especially if she have kids for you). She just wants to feel needed although her body is not the same as when she said "i do" to you.
Just let her know, don't just do it to make her feel better. Instead, do it because you mean every word.
2006-12-15 08:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes especially if she has had children a woman feels embarassed of how her body looks she probably feels you would not like what you see, because she dose feel pleased with how she looks. re a sure her and if she has the bomb body and a flawless figure then she needs work on some self esteem with a flawless body there should be no problem especially with her husband
2006-12-15 08:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she needs are privacy or she is shy or you have said something to her which makes her uncomfortable being naked in front of you when the lights are on. Question for you do you have sex with the lights on? Give her more compliments, build her confidence if she has confident issues. You don't only have to tell her she is hot and sexy, but you also have to make her believe you.
2006-12-15 08:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well could be many reasons. 1. She could be ashamed of her body and insecure and doesn't want you to see the flaws that she thinks she sees. 2. She doesn't want you to get turned on and she is not in the mood to have sex. For number one she needs to get over that and flaunt her stuff around you we all have flaws.
2006-12-15 09:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not like the way she looks naked... and thinks it will be a turn off to you. If you really want to help her get over it tell her every day that you think she is gorgeous and looks better than the day you met.
2006-12-15 08:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by sierra33ok 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋