2006-12-15 07:56:16 · 26 answers · asked by Waterboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Romance her, without the expectation of having sex. Be physical without a demand for performance. Kiss her and hold her.
It won't be long before she jumps you.
2006-12-15 07:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well there are many ways to get your wife more interested in sex. She could feel overwelmed with chores and if you have children. Help her more around the house. Give her a compliment every now and then. Give her attention without having to have sex unless it comes your way. Make a date night twice a month with just the two of you. Bring up those special memories that you two shared with one another when you first fell in love. Give her little love pats throughout the day. When you two are making love make sure she is pleased everytime you do. Women are like ovens they have to be warmed up but once they are warmed up watch out it can be hot. Good luck
2006-12-15 17:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make things new again! The truth is that all of us get stuck in that same old routine, whether it be at work or at home in our relationships. You just have to make sex between you new again just like in the beginning of your relationship. Try planning a weekend getaway or book a nice nearby hotel and spend the night. A new environment might be all you need to spice things up again. I'm not saying that you need to do this every single time you want to have sex with your wife but even just occasional splurges like this should be good enough to re-spark her engine.
2006-12-15 16:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can be more romantic (bring flowers, tell her he loves her, help her with the dishes after dinner...not kidding here, that's a turn on for a lot of women when men help them in the kitchen). He can realize how tired she is, and help with other things (childcare, housework) so she can relax sooner in the evening and get a second burst of energy for him. He can try his darnest to make it good for her and not just his own selfish self...lots of warm up time first. If she really likes it and feels good about the way her guy treats her, and isn't so stressed out and tired because she's had his help, then she wants it more.
2006-12-15 16:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a doctor a get her tested for her testosterone level.It will come back low ,she will get a shot and then well you better bring some help cause all she will want 24 hours a day is sex. The first two weeks are unbelievable, you should take vacation for the first week for sure.
2006-12-15 17:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking for sex so much. If you keep asking about it, talking about it, or even hinting around it she will think that is the only thing you want from her!
Many women need an emotional connection - this creates intimacy and therefore makes them more inclined (and more relaxed) for sex. Try talking for a while in bed, or when things are quiet and you can just focus on each other. This just might be the thing she needs to relax.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 16:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Make sure she isn't faking it when you do and go above the call of duty to satisfy her.
A satified wife = a satisifed husband, but it doesn't work the other way around.
2006-12-15 16:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew, i would love to get my bf to want it more than once a month! What's up with people that don't want sex? Sex is probably the best activity out there, but I don't ever get enough if it anymore!
2006-12-15 16:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to focus on making yourself attractive to her, just like all the other male species in the animal kingdom do. Gorillas beat on their chest, peacocks strut their stuff, fish spread their fins....She is probably not attracted to you. Go to the gym, shave that hair off of your back, buy some fashionable clothes, change up your style!
2006-12-15 16:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with her more, give her spontaneous oral sex, tell her multiple times a day how sexy she is in various ways, make sure each morning before getting out of the bed that you snuggle her and tell her you love her and give her lots of kisses, do it again at night, again in the middle of the night if you wake up even if she is sleep kiss her and say I love you, tell her often how hot she makes you feel, buy her sexy clothes to wear, give her a massage often, let her see how much you desire her.
2006-12-15 16:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give her a bubble bath, full body massage with scented oils, take her on weekend getaways, leave her a love letter with a rose, make her feel that she is the only woman for you, wear something sexy and dance for her, caress her, serve her breakfast in bed, in other words be romantic with a touch of wildness.
2006-12-15 16:05:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋