According to him he hooked up with him 4 times, our discussion is should he tell her? (He is not out yet)
2006-12-15 07:29:43 · 17 answers · asked by dicksee87015 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
he hooked up with the guy BEFORE his sister met him, supposdly like a year before
2006-12-15 07:33:29 · update #1
What if the brother never tells her - but it comes out later in some other way and the sister finds out - how would she feel knowing her brother kept such a huge secret?
He needs to talk to the BF and tell him that he intends to tell his sister. The BF then should be man enough to tell her himself.
2006-12-15 07:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh GOD how AWKWARD!
I would advise your friend to gently question his sister about her relationship. If her boyfriend has told her that he is bisexual or even just curious, than he's fine and doesn't have to really worry...however if her boyfriend is withholding such VITAL information from her, it should raise a few red flags...I mean we all keep a little something back at first. My husband didn't immediately know of my fear of cows when we were dating, however there is a difference between not baring all your odd little phobias, and not telling someone you're dating (and presumably being intimate with) something that is such an important part of who you ARE. It makes you wonder what other information he might be hiding from her...
2006-12-15 08:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by eXie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! What the hell does it matter? So what the guy's bi... she'll find out eventually if she doesn't already know. That is really an area you should not get into with them. Who any of them have sex with is thier buisness... now if your friend were to sleep with his sister's boyfriend NOW, then you might want to talk to his sister. But let's just hope that doesn't happen.
2006-12-15 07:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell her. As soon as you do, that will open up nothing but problems and drama! I'm telling you....I wouldn't do it. She's gonna be really mad, your friends going to be mad, and his sisters new boyfriend will get upset, too. But the sister might tell that you told, it will be a mess in other words...LOL
2006-12-15 07:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex with your sister's boyfriend (gay or not) is just simply off limits. Period. And stay out of it. You don't wanna get wrapped up in that mess.
2006-12-15 07:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by RockC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your nose out of this. Tell your friend to stop talking to you about this sort of thing. If you are also gay then consider how you would feel if someone outed you.
2006-12-15 07:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by Donald W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah. I'd tell her. I would want to know if my brother was having sex with my boyfriend.
2006-12-15 07:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE IS IF THIS IS TRUE , BY FAR THE BIGGEST ASSHOLE EVER.
YOU ARE NOTSUPPOSED TO MESS WITH YOUR SISTERS BOYFRIEND.
CAN'T YOU TELL HIM TO STOP TELLING YOU THESE KIND OF STRONG STORIES
AND IT IS BETTER YOU STAY OUT OF THIS COMPLETELY.
DO NOT TELL HER:IT IS SO UNFAIR TO DO THAT,SINCE IT IS HER OWN BROTER WHO DID THIS TO HER.
I'D SLAPP HIM THROUGH THE HOUSE.
ROB.XXXX
2006-12-15 08:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. who knows if its true. If it is the gay boyfriend is pretty stupid. or BI. why would you hook up with your friends sisters boyfriend? goshh. these ppl are weird. . lol
2006-12-15 07:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. Leave it alone. The world is alot easier when you don't get too involved.
2006-12-15 07:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋