I've wanted to quit my job for the past few weeks, but I'm having trouble. My managers are so nice and have been very good to me, but this just isn't the right job for me. I feel like I'm betraying the management and like everyone is going to hate my guts.
2006-12-15 07:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Sit down with your manager(s) and explain to them that you like them and appreciate what they have done for you, but "this just isn't the right job" for you. Be true to yourself. And, if they hate your guts, so be it; you won't be around to see or hear it.
2006-12-15 07:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a very nice letter of resignation explaining that you are leaving, a timeline for your tenure, and the reasons why you are leaving.
Before you submit the letter, however, schedule a meeing with your immediate manager (sometimes different than your boss, a manager has the authority to fire you, etc.). Explain to him or her that you just don't think that this is the right job for you, but you love the organization.
It may actually be possible that your employer has noticed that you are not a great fit for the job and have been planning to transfer/promote you into another position. If your manager doesn't offer ask if there are other open positions or opportunities. If not then it is time to deliver your letter. Meanwhile, ask if you can get a letter of recommendation.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 07:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Johnnie O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calmly tell them that it isn't the right job for you. Tell them that you gave this serious thought for some time, and you don't want to disappoint them, but you know that this isn't going to work for you in the long run. Thank them profusely for being such wonderful managers, let them know how much you have enjoyed working for them. Give them two weeks notice - if you have no other job, perhaps three weeks notice. Write your letter of resignation, again thanking them for the opportunity to work with them, that you have learned so much, you will look back at your time spent at the company fondly. If you feel comfortable after all that, ask them in a sincere way if they would mind if you used them as a reference in the future.
They will not hate your guts, trust me. People come and go from jobs all the time, it is a fact of capitalism. Don't worry, it will be okay!
2006-12-15 07:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by aivilo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant or shouldn't stay somewhere you are unhappy. Mangement knows that, too. Believe me. They wouldn't stay somewhere that they werent happy, and neither should you. I would pull them aside and tell them you are thinking of leaving. Give a written letter and let them know how much you've enjoyed working there...but, it's time for you to move on and you are not as happy working there as you thought you'd be. Tell them that that day you are giving your 2 weeks. Trust me, they might be a little hurt at first, but in the long run they understand. And they'll forget about you (no offense) 2 days after you're gone. Jobs come and go as do people. goodluck.
2006-12-15 07:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sara S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with your employer and voice your feelings. Maybe they can do something to help to feel better in your position. If that's not an option for you then just say that you don't think the job is a good fit I think your employer will appreciate your honesty. Make sure to give proper notice and I think you can make a smooth exit. Nobody will hate you for quitting your job. It happens all the time. Good Luck.
2006-12-15 07:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say thank you so much for having given me this wonderful opportunity to work here with all of the fine staff at (Company Name). It is with regret that I must submit my resignation notice. My last date of employment is (date). I have enjoyed working here very much, however I feel it is time for me to pursue other opportunities and continue my growth as an asset to wherever I work.
It has been a pleasure,
Your name
2006-12-15 07:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's always possible. I recently started new job and tried to quit my old job 'with grace' even gave them 4 weeks instead of 2, etc. but omg, you would have thought it was Armageddon or something!
2006-12-15 07:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to write a letter resignation thanking them for the opportunity to work with them. Be honest and tell them that the job is not the right fit for you but that they have been wonderful to work with.
I worked for a company that I loved but was offered a better salary with another company. I told both my bosses seperately and in private and then gave them my letter of resignation. They thanked me for handling myself in a "professional manner" and I left them with good feelings and respect.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 07:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not be betraying anyone. Just give a few weeks notice and let them know you have found something more fitting for yourself. They will be happy for your honesty and also give you a good reference for future since you were so honest and didnt just not show up one day.
2006-12-15 07:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look out for number 1 dude.
Its a freemarket economy. You reserve the right to better yourself by getting a better job.
As for the rest of the team - you can still see them for the occasional drink or birthday dos. Don't feel guilty!
2006-12-15 07:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Trey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋