I had written before about this butch that I really liked. I thought of the surprise gift...nothing to extravaggant...Let me know what you guys think..a pair of movie tickets? Look at my previous question if you can...
2006-12-15 06:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by lOvInG mOmMiE 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Help me, Im "in love" with a butch. But I dont know how to get her. I dont want to loose her. What 2 do?
I met her about a month and a couple of weeks ago & didnt think much of her until we went out. I wasnt sure if she was gay until she mentioned a friend of hers that was in jail who treated her like **** and I feel that we really connected. I really care for her, but although this may be true, I feel that her feelings for this woman is stronger to see anything new or better. Weve only hung out a couple of times and havent heard from her in a week. She does work two jobs and will be seeing her at a friends christmas party that I know she will attend soon. Weve been through similar experiences and I want to continue our friendship to see if it grows into something more. How do I talk to her w.out being too aggressive? or should I be? Should I visit her? Should I be discrete, give her hints or be strait up. And if I do, how? I know weve known one another for a short while, but I reall
2006-12-15 07:10:01 · update #1
well me being a good looking butch myself would take the date.... i mean u dont want to do anything to dramatic....u might look desperate...so if this girl dont ecept then h e l l with her..me on the other hand im single.....:)
2006-12-15 07:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Trish W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion, (and I do apologies to butch lesbians if I'm way off base here), you have to kind of treat butch lesbians a lot like you would treat a man.
Just something to keep in mind. Think about it.
2006-12-15 08:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a wonderful gift sweetie. But don't forget about taking her out to dinner also.
2006-12-15 21:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just added a comment to the last one, I think it sounds TERRIFIC!! Perfect way to allow you to ask her out on a date and not seem too aggressive or to committed! AWSOME!!!
Come back and tell us how it works out!!
2006-12-15 07:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say...go ahead and ask her out....that's the only way to really answer your question. If you don't ask her, it could be something you'll end up regretting. Good luck hun, keep us posted....
2006-12-15 08:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a good idea, a good subtle way to express your interest, and gives her the opportunity to as you out. Good luck. :)
2006-12-16 12:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea
2006-12-15 06:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by bachabach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋