2006-12-15 06:41:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him
2006-12-15 06:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by steve 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two mistakes here. One you really cant change but the other you better do something about before something happens like he takes it out on the baby. No one deserves to be abused by anyone for any reason and that is why there are lawsto protect you from this. Since youre a minor and hes probably an adult, he can get into alot of trouble over this. But as long as you and the baby are safe,then who cares. Notify the police and get a protective restraining order against him if necessary. True if hes behind bars he cant support you two but at least he cant do any more harm. There are groups out there that will help you if you seek them,but you must make the first move. Try the womans help group now to save you two from this guy. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-15 15:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would highly recommend adoption. Your are a baby yourself. You can not raise a child under those cirumstances. Give that baby to a loving home and take this as a learning lesson. You really need to wise up and stop having unprotected sex. If you're old enough to get pregnant then your old enough to handle the consequences. Why are you worried about it now? You weren't worried about it when you were laying on your back with you legs all open.
2006-12-15 14:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got out of an abusive relationship. Trust me, it's better to be a single teenage mother than to be a teenage mother with an abusive husband/boyfriend. Plus, do you really want your baby to be in that kind of environment? Cuz you never know what he might do to that baby. My best friend (who was in the same situation as me) had a baby at 16, her boyfriend (who later became her husband) would beat her constantly. She got out of the relationship after he tried to kill her and the baby (while she was in the hospital about to have their son). It was horrible! But, she got out of it, and got help for her son. She is currently on DHS help. But trust me, you don't want that for you or your baby. You will be grateful afterwards. And i kno it's hard to leave, exspecially if you love him, but i PROMISE you, you will be happier. Don't put yourself throught this... you can find a way better guy, who will treat you and your baby with the love and care that you need!
Hope this helps!
P.s. contact me if you need anything
2006-12-15 15:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by nikkicomstock_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him, call the police and file a police report, file a restraing order. And go on with your life and make a life for you and that little baby. This is a very unsafe situation and it will only increase as time goes on. Talk to someone an adult that you trust and get some assistance with this situation. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-15 15:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to leave the relationship and you need to tell someone fast like your parents ot a trusted adult they will help you!!!! You really need someone to help you right now. this guy could hurt you or hurt the baby in someway. And if you dont get out soon then the relationship after your married and have the baby will be very hard to get out. There are plenty of people who will help you after you have left him, like WIC, Child Care, and Social Services, just dont be afraid. you need to tell someone before it is to late.
2006-12-17 11:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by volleyball4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE! do you want for your baby to think that ,that's the way life to be .What if your child gets older & thinks this is ok & end up ALWAYS in jail.There are alot of fish out in this beautiful ocean Set a good example for your child PLEASE! Not so much for your sake because you really know the answer to leave him but thee poor new inoccent life does not.
2006-12-15 16:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by maamawalanis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from a man that beats on you because if he beats on you he will beat on that baby and you need to protect your child.
2006-12-15 14:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Grief!!!!!!!!!
now i know it says that your a teen, but come on!! there isn't enough love or money in the world that would make me stay!
the next time he hits you, there is a good chance that he will damage the baby or better yet kill it!!
COMMON SENSE PEOPLE, IT GOES A LONG WAY!!
2006-12-15 15:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Laurie X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your local center for children and families and they will come out and shoot the person like they would a rabid dog. He's no better than one if he hits you.
2006-12-15 14:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Drowningbluestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either learn to take the beating by asking for another for the rest of your life, or get out now!!!!
2006-12-15 15:00:28 · answer #11 · answered by shane892000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋