I spend the first night with my 40 year old girlfriend a couple of weeks ago and I will be staying with her again this weekend. When I fingered her for the first time, she was completely dry. No matter what I did, she was so dry there? What can I do?
2006-12-15 06:39:52 · 8 answers · asked by chinacat 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
lube her up
2006-12-15 07:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss, touch, rub, massage for longer prior to. Even watch a dirty video if she's into that.
If that still doesn't work, maybe she just doesn't get lubricated enough. That doesn't necessarily mean she's not turned on. She could be, but is just a woman who doesn't get wet enough. You may need to use saliva or lubricant most or every time.
2006-12-15 14:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just how honest are you with her??
I had a roommate once like that.
I knew she was a short timer so I just jammed it home dry and all .
She carried on like fun I was sore.
You got communications SAY we need lube!!!
2006-12-15 14:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all girls get as wet as some. I would suggest oral :) Women enjoy it haha. It will more than likely get her more wet then she would if you just finger her.
2006-12-15 15:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by kasey06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women just don't have as much of an ability in that area than others, just go and purchase some, then you will be set
2006-12-15 14:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask her what it is you can do to help her become more aroused. If she is aroused, chances are she's just not a person with an abundance of lubrication. Therefore, use other methods of lubrication.
2006-12-15 14:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by S H 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, get your mouth down there. You'll get her wet one way or the other.
Beeper, go buy what? Wet?
2006-12-15 14:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
get some lube, flavored makes for more fun
2006-12-15 14:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋