My name is Cristina and im 13 years old in the 7th grade. I met this guy who is in the 8th grade, he's name is Alex and we kinda made out. In school! He liked it so we kept doing it for a long time. I''m still doing it and am I too young for it? But the thing is I'm hot, blonde hair, green eyes, tall, thing, really pretty. Does he want something more than making out?
2006-12-15 05:53:45 · 27 answers · asked by Cristina 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Now WHYYY does this not sound legit to me?
Hm. I don't knowwwwww....
2006-12-15 05:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by retrowfmk 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some may say that 13 is a little young today to be "making out" but girls of 13 from the Biblical days up to a few hundred years or less ago were often married and some had children.
All children explore and learn about themselves and the others around them. There will be those who disagree with me but I do not think you are doing anything wrong, you are being a normal young person.
Although the two web sites are a little mature maybe for you, you might try to read them. They are both about childhood. Some computers may be set not to open these sites, but there is nothing wrong in them...they are informative and helpful for both adults and children. Many adults try to hide such information from young people and that makes the young more determined to learn the wrong things. Parents should learn and teach your children the right things. I know I am giving you much more than you asked, but others read here too and how else can they learn as well.
Does this boy want more than making out? Probably he has some ideas...it is up to you to set the limits on how far you will let him go. Touching at your age is learning...but you might draw the line there for now.
2006-12-15 14:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I realize you are only 13, but you need to realize that at your age and your boyfriends age you have all the hormones, but not enough knowledge about what making out really can lead to. I don't know either of you personally, but boys tend to always have more on their minds than simply making out. A simple kiss could lead to much more sexually, which I'm sure you know can lead to at the very least, pregnancy, and to other dreadful sexually transmitted diseases. You are young, and you still have a lot of youth left, enjoy your innocence. There will be a lot of other young men when you're old enough to deal with the pressures.
2006-12-15 14:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Colleen M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are ready to make out with boys then there's really no problem with it. But doing other things too early in life gives people the wrong idea of you and although you may have fun while you're doing it, you may look back on it one day and regret doing it. I myself and 26 and I waited to have sex until I was 15. If I could go back and change anything, would I? No, I felt I was ready enough to and I was RESPONSIBLE about it. I always wore a condom, if I didn't have one, I didn't have sex, simple as that. Don't feel rushed to do anything. There's no hurry. Take your time
2006-12-15 13:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, we can say that you are starting to be a teen-ager, but you shouldn't go "straight to the top". I'd say that you should stop, and leave those things behind for a while. Enjoy spending your time with your friends. You will have a lot of time to get worried about "That".
I'm not saying that you shouldn't be in love with some guy, but be careful!!! Please!!! Be c-a-r-e-f-u-l!!!
And... if the boy, named Alex, is really in love with you, maybe he only want to kiss you without hurt you. Think about that.
2006-12-15 20:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sofía 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes youare too young and dont get a rep at that age or highschool will be hell just have fun dint worry abdout sex or making out and girls will be jealous im 25 now but i looked like what you described and got a bad rep because of girls and guys i would not do so be careful and all.
2006-12-15 13:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by crystal b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 break it 2 ya, but all guys do. its called hormones. it happens. but i would say that 7th grade is pushing it 4 being 2 young. id say 8th grade is okay, but thats just my opinion. and OF COURSE he liked it! duh. and, if u r hot, than ur just have 2 watch out even more 4 guys just trying 2 see how far they can get w/ u.
2006-12-15 14:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously..... he wants something more than that. A typical guy never makes out with somebody who is anybody. I wouldnt get my hopes up if I was u. N y doesnt he get a gf that is his age or grade????
2006-12-15 14:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by garnet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask you are too young. But, since your already doing it then what difference does it make what we say. If everyone says your too young are you just gonna stop? Probably not. So just do what you're gonna do, but do it smart.
2006-12-15 14:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by ehuerta22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. He wants to get you pregnant. And yes you are too young to be making out or even dating.
2006-12-15 14:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP MAKING OUT! u'll regret it later. im in High School and used to make out with my bf in the 7th grade. but its not worth it. u'll regret it in High school bc it won't be nething new. and then u'll wanna explore more which will just lead to places u dont wanna be. in Junior High relationships aren't seriouse. ppl just want bfs and gfs to say they have one or bragging rights. so just wait till High school its not that far off. it'll be there b4 u no it. trust me!
2006-12-15 14:14:06 · answer #11 · answered by anom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋