She is still in contact with me, however, every conversation results in her talking about the other two and what they've done. I do get invited to go out with all of them, however, for this last outing she had one of the other girls contact me with the details instead of her calling herself? Should I just play it cool and act as if nothing is bothering me? Or, should I bring this subject up with her? Also, we have only been in 1 fight in 31 years..and it was 10 years ago, and one of these two girls caused it?
2006-12-15 05:38:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her about whats bugging you, it should fix things up. if shes been your best friend for that long, she should understand =)
2006-12-15 05:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by one&only<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should bring it up to her and let her know how you feel. I have a best friend of 37 years, we were born at the same time and were raised together. If she does something to me I can tell her and we work it out. If she's been a friend that long chances are she will understand how you feel and work on a solution that is best for everyone. She is your friend she deserves to know if something is bothering you.
2006-12-15 13:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Grateful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i have a girl friend for 33 yrs and we are best friends and she has other good friends out side of me as well as i have good friends outside of her . i think you feel a little jealous of her other friendships. if you and her lasted all these years and trust me you are truly friends you should not be concern about her being with them . because it is kinda childish but if you are really feeling bad about it then talk to her about your feelings but what will you say? she invites to everything, is it because she asked someone else to call instead of herself? maybe she was busy at the time but cared enough to make sure you got the info . she is not snubbing you so , play it cool .happy holidays. lol
2006-12-15 13:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 fight is no big deal, u got to tell her sooner or later otherwise u will just fade away like a ghost in your best friends memory =/
2006-12-15 14:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋