I have been totall overwhelmed by some of the responses I have been receiving on Yahoo answers. I have had a pretty bad break up recently with my guy and if someone can do an advanced search, search for all questions raised by me under the nickname FastC and read my questions posted recently, they would get the complete picture of whats really happened and whats gone so wrong that although I am not at fault, I am going crazy with this urge to call my ex and talk to him, knowing he will not come back in my life as a lover. Can somebody please do this for me and either post their answers about how do I manage this situation or email me at fastlife2000@yahoo.com. I need a lot of help and some friends whom I can talk to, get advice from and help in moving on with life. I am in distress and cry every single day. I also think that I am totally incapable of loving someone else after whats happened. Can somebody please help me? I need lots of it.
2006-12-15 05:37:58 · 6 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was 31 when I met him. Now, I am 34. He is about 8 years younger to me.
2006-12-15 05:59:08 · update #1
I looked at all of your questions, and seems to me, that you have not yet let him go.
You need to get brave, get him off of your mind, and place mountain of block over him, and move on!
You need to go do something good for your self, exercise, eat right, go get a pedicare, and manucare, do your hair differently, buy your self another outfit, get your sexy makeup on, sexy outfit, and shoes, and go out with the single girlfriends, and meet other men, flirting and etc. and find yourself that other men indeed find you completely attractive, and wants you,and the loser who did dump you, well, I did say loser!!!!!!!!!!
Get over him, he can't have you, he is not worthy of you, your love, your devotion, and your patience!
give another deserving man who will cherished you and love you, and you love him too!!!!!!!!
Don't talk, erase and get rid all numbers of him, and put a complete history in your memory file, that he is never allowed to have someone like you and your worthiness of a woman!
One day, you will find a man, who you will love, adore, and even put to where you will summit to his authority, and he will be the best lover, best friend, and everything that you dreamed.
But if you don't get rid of this loser out of your head, you will never meet the right man who was made just for you!
2006-12-15 06:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not dial!!!! Look he has left your life. It is hard. Try to dwell on the bad side of his personality - that always helps! I made this silly list with all the rules for my next lover - that pretty well ruled out everyone and killed a couple hours in the process. The list was incredibly long. Try to look at the benefits of not having some bum to pick up after. Do everything he wouldn't do with you quickly in case he comes back. Just go out and try to enjoy singledom its all you can do. Pretend he is coming back in a month and is going to be a total P**ck so you are having a good time while you can.
2006-12-18 16:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation is never a good beginning. You need to try to work on your self esteem.. They have several books you can purchase to maybe give you a boost. Good Luck and I hope things work out for the best. Here's a example "Codependence: "The Dance of Wounded Souls
A Cosmic Perspective on Codependence and the Human Condition"
by Robert Burney
2006-12-15 05:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Monkeylynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make some one love you or stay withyou you need to get busy with your life and dont be in ahurry to have a full on relationship and dont act desperate as your power goes to him and youare zapped of energy breaking up is never easy so when looking for a lover .etc. learn to read their plans if you thinkthat something is not right dont give them your heart like they say what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger
2006-12-15 07:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man told you yesterday
dont be so available dont call him
how old are you might i ask
sounds like youve never had your heart broken before.. you WILL get over it in time
2006-12-15 05:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by jameses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something else to occupy your mind,. and you'll get over it all a lot quicker
2006-12-15 05:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by hailey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋