Would u willingly make or allow ur partner to make sex videos of urself with ur husband/partner for fun, inspite of the risk that it may get leaked out by chance or even by ur own partner (without ur approval)?
Have u done it?
2006-12-15 05:35:51 · 23 answers · asked by arwa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just thought that I would add
(considering some of the assumptions) that I was not planning to do this. I just am curious about it in general. A lot of people do it, inspite of the risk. And so, wanted to know all ur views.
2006-12-15 08:43:36 · update #1
Trust NOBODY but yourself!!!!!!! No, don't do it.
2006-12-15 08:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to decide to do this. You must have some interest but that fear of release is with you. It is a genuine concern but when you think about it it is of little consequence.
If you were with a lover and did this you really have a problem but with your husband? No I think not.
So you have to decide.....would this be a turn on for me and would it be worth it. Would you want to watch yourself having sex with your husband. Most me I think would be turned on by that but not sure about women.
The answer is with you. Control the tape so you know it will never get away from you....don't do it......or just don't care. These are you options. It may...or may not....enhance your sex life. only you can know that for sure.
2006-12-15 06:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have done it but keep the video myself and locked away. I was married in the past and my exhusband got his hands on the video. He threatened to show people the video if I did not turn over a piece of furniture he wanted. I just laughed and said "Oooo...so what am I supposed to be ashamed of? Having sex with my own husband? Besides, do you really want other people to see that thing of yours?"
He declined to comment and mailed the original video to me promptly. Whether he made a copy, I do not know...not a big deal to me though. He was my husband for goodness sake.
2006-12-15 05:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. I trust him with everything in me, and we'd take very careful measures to ensure nothing would get leaked out. Even if something did get out, big deal. What are the chances I will ever meet someone who's seen it? I'm no celebrity. We haven't done it, but it is something we've talked about.
2006-12-15 05:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would and have, it is a good way to spice thing up.. there is always that risk but if you love & trust your partner you should not be ashamed to do things you may even enjoy it and find that you start to do more things you would never of seen yourself doing before...
2006-12-15 05:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it has to be something both of you really want to do but then theres that chance the other might get mad, take revenge and then you'll be seen across the world. I say do iot only if you plan on living with this man for the rest of your life.
2006-12-15 05:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are many times when these tapes have been leaked out, particularly, at the end of the relationship. if you don't want to be an internet diva, i would stop it now.
2006-12-15 05:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We take pictures and videos. I am only worried about our children finding them when they get older so we keep them in our room locked up.
I think it is fun.
2006-12-15 05:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have done this on more than one occassion. Makes things interesting!
2006-12-15 06:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by On Time 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. I would NEVER post it on the internet, send to her parents are let anyone else see them. If we broke up, I would destroy them.
2006-12-15 06:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've thought about it too and have never done it because of that same reason.
2006-12-15 05:38:58 · answer #11 · answered by xquis81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋