I feel like I am going crazy! I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first (after a miscarriage in May) and with the holidays coming up I feel like I am going crazy... I've been saving up my cash so that I can buy my SO (the father) some of the things he has been wanting, since he is always working and saving his money for us. I've bought him alot of things, and this week his boss came into town and bought him everything he has been wanting... meaning I have to take all my stuff back... and I don't know if its my hormones or what... but I am so upset over this. I've been crying for days. Is this emotional insanity because of my hormones? Please help! I feel like I'm losing it! Any ideas for how to calm down and not be such a crazy pregnant nagging girlfriend? thanks :)
2006-12-15 05:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by while_love_remains 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hormones dont create emotions, they amplify them.
Tell your boyfriend/fiance/partner that you realy need his support right this second because you're feeling really frustraited. Explain to him all you did for him, because of all he's doing for you and the baby, and how you feel so disapointed and sad because now you have nothing special to give him in return for all he's doing. And that makes you feel really shitty.
And then calm down, eat something, drink some water. And realize that his boss didnt do it to be a pain, or to ruin the holiday, he was only trying to be a nice guy/lady. He didnt do it to personally drive a steak through your heart. It only seems that way.
You can either choose to be a crazy insane pregnant lady, or you can choose not to. You HAVE to realize you are unable to physically and emotionally handle normal every day life without some slack. You need to build into your day, and life, time to sit down, calm down, and relax and regain your senses and control of your emotions.
It sounds impossible, but it really can be done.
2006-12-15 05:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes your hormones did make you down. The best way is exercise. Try walking, hiking, prenatal yoga. How about u spend those cash you save and give yourself a treat i.e. manicure, new hair style, make-up or cute pregnancy clothing.
2006-12-15 13:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the stuff back and try to relax. Hormones are just make you emotional and it sucks. Maybe (if you have the money) go to a day spa and treat yourself that will help you relax.
2006-12-15 13:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by mdoud01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, it is those pregnancy hormones kicking your tail. Just try to stay cool with him and dont worry so much about what to get him for christmas I am sure he will be happy with whatever you decide to give him, you are giving him this baby right? 9 months is a long time that we woman have to carry a child and they should be supportive of that, try not to let your hormones come between your relationship, they will tear you apart.
2006-12-15 13:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy2three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything seems more exagerated when you are pregnant. Everything will be okay. I would take the gifts back buy him one thing and spend the rest on you, after all you deserive it!
2006-12-15 13:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by babyboyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just pregnat calm down breath deeply you might need medicine talk to your docter especially if you are experienceing this this early be careful
2006-12-15 13:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by crystal b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get married.
2006-12-15 13:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋