Women have been flirting more than normal, and a few have gone so far as to make a legitimate pass at me. Are they nuts? What's up with people wanting to be with married people? Is it for real? Are those women testing me?
2006-12-15 05:29:04 · 18 answers · asked by Your #1 fan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes women love the idea that you are married because you being attached tells them there will be nothing serious there but flirting or just meaningless sex if you permit it to happen. Men are the same way with married women. I suggest telling them to back off that you are in love with your wife and you married her for a reason~LOVE.
2006-12-15 05:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just want you because they know you are not available, and maybe they are testing you as well. You have to remember that marriage is a promise. There will ALWAYS be temptation! Do you think your the only one getting attention, what about your wife? You need to treat this as you would want your wife to respect your marriage. Be strong and don't give in for some short term lust.
2006-12-15 13:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women enjoy trying to be home wreckers. Stay happy with the one you are married to. Just remember that your wife is the only woman for you.
2006-12-15 13:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always want what they can't have, and it's common what has happened to you. Sometimes it's not even a concious thing for them - they may not even realize what they are doing. Just think of it as a compliment, have a little fun with it and stay faithful to your wife. You'll be glad you did!
2006-12-15 13:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, a lot more women goes for guys who are commited because they see them as being more serious about being in a relationship or some type of commitment than if you come across a cat who's still single. also they may be asking themselves, if he's still single than something must be wrong with him the reason he's not in a relationship
2006-12-15 13:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the "forbidden fruit" theory. People want what they can't have. The type of woman and or man who are interested in married people are disturbed and should be avoided.
2006-12-15 13:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by koral2800 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you are just noticing it more now that you are married and off the market? Also, perhaps there is something about a happily married man that draws people to you, they want a piece of that happiness?
2006-12-15 13:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just see it as more of a challenge. A conquest. Maybe they are turned on by the idea of doing something "naughty".
2006-12-15 13:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just natural for both women and men to want what they can't have. Take this advice, if you love your wife: ignore them!!!! be a man not a pig :P
2006-12-15 13:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dazed & Confused...literally... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fantasy... that will only happen to Brad Pitt.
You were probably approached by other men .
2006-12-15 13:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋