Should i be a good big sister and give her time alone like she asked for. Or should I tell our mother that she might be pregnant AGAIN! SHe has a son who is 2 and she takes care of him WONDERFUL!!! but she told me that she isn't ready for another child, what should they do? what should I do?
2006-12-15 05:06:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She's 18 going to be 19 in february.....
2006-12-17 03:16:20 · update #1
Its not your place to tell your mom. Make your sister fess up. She got herself into this situation, so she should be ready to take all the necessary actions.
2006-12-15 05:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by rockerchic821 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sister already has a child then it's not your place to tell your mother. Sisters have such a sacred bond, you don't want to smash that. Unless your sister is in danger, or like 14-15 years old then don't tell your mom. Pregnancy takes 9 months, eventually your sister will tell your mom. It's the holiday season. It's stressful enough and with her having to take care of the 2 year old she already has you should give her some space. If she still hasn't said anything by after new years then bring it up to your sister again. Just ask her from one sister to another what shes going to do. Just wait. Believe that everything happens for a reason, good or bad, and jut have faith that your sisters going to be alright.
2006-12-15 05:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Camerons Mama07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old your "little" sister is. But, at any rate it isn't your place to tell your mother. It is your sister's problem and her choice whether to say anything yet. Maybe she just needs some time to get her thoughts together and decide what she is going to do about this potential problem. I say potential because you don't even know for sure if she is pregnant. Give her some time like she asked. If she's pregnant and decides to keep the pregnancy, your mom will find out eventually. Don't put yourself in the middle. It will only cause strife between you and your sister.
2006-12-15 05:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kat_RN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a big enough girl to take care of one of her own child, she's big enough to tell your mom that she's pregnant again...if it is in fact the case. I think the person you should be speaking to is your sister. Get confirmation and encourage her to tell your mom as she'll eventually find out if the pregnancy continues. Only if your sister asks you to break the news to mom would I cross that line. She might feel betrayed otherwise, right or wrong. Just try to put yourself in her position and that will help you decide what your sisterly role should be.
2006-12-15 05:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that she needs to tell your Mom so she can get the proper medical care. The longer she waits the more mad that Mom is going to get. Tell her that is she doesn't tell her by a certain time that you are going to.
If she doesn't want another one there's always adoption. They also may want to try some kind of birth control if she's not ready for another child!
Good luck!!
2006-12-15 05:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by net_grl79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say give ur little sis a little time maybe shell come around and tell ur mom her self and talk to her see what she has to say how old is she if shes already got a son and she takes care of him nicely then just let her be for a little while she may be in shock and then she might decide to say somethin if she waits to long and u feel ur parents need to know then tell them after all u just want the best for ur little sis
good luck and tell her congrats if she is
2006-12-15 05:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by I luv you James! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 22 years old a grown women she should marry this man and move out of her moms house. And you should not have to be the bearer of bad news to your mom either she is grown and she got herself into this situation she can tell her mom herself. And your mom is only trying to be pertective of her children this you know right? Anyways tell your sister to tell your mom the truth and be grown up about it 22 is a normal age for a women to have a baby and be married!
2016-05-24 21:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel like you should tell your mom ,because my sister had a friend that was pregnant and she didn't tell her mom until she was six months and her baby came out really small and sick so maybe you should talk to your sister and tell why she should tell your mom so she can start getting help. But good luck to you and your sister
2006-12-15 05:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by trinac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her time. She will eventually have to tell them herself, she can't hide a pregnancy for very long. She is going through enough, and has enough on her mind. I don't think she needs the stress of having parents in her face about what she has done, it will only add to her stress, which is the last thing she needs at this time. It is her problem, and her responsibility. Of course, your parents will probably wonder why you didn't tell them about it. But it wasn't your place to tell, was it?
2006-12-15 05:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old your sister is.If she`s 19 or younger you should probably tell your mom but if she`s older than that let her take care of the matter herself
2006-12-15 05:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by kvcreom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋