how can we find true love in this world of dishonest and busy people?

Answer 1

Try not to think of everyone in this world as dishonest. You don't have to try hard in looking for your true love. If its meant to be, you will meet the right guy. Just be more optimistic.

Answer 2

Welcome to reality.
That is why the number of single is growing. Obviously, there is no one for everyone, so we have to stay single. I am the busy one, not the dishonest.
I also realized people stay busy to avoid meeting the dishonest one's

Good luck

Answer 3

It is very hard to find true love, but dont go looking for it or you may never find it.....let them find you it may take a while but when he comes around you will know that is who you want to be with for the rest of your life.

Answer 4

You use what intuition and intelligence you have, and you take your chances like the rest of civilization.

No matter how you look at it, love/relationships are the ultimate gamble. You put your heart on the table, and you might get it broken. That's the chance you take.

That's life.

Deal with it.

Answer 5

try to sleep with every guy who ever u find out is a fagg is a true love baby lol

Answer 6

Just keep looking beacuse somewherre out there, there is somebody who will be your true love. Just keep lookin and you eill find

Answer 7

That's quite the question.. It deserves quite an answer...

Truth is an absolute. To seek an absolute or to hope to find something pure and without contradiction is a never-ending up-hill climb, that never stops paying you back for the journey.

You ask for nothing less than a full re-evaluation of your love life (unless you already have preserved truth and honorable traits in yourself). I personally believe truth, dignity, loyalty, honor and reality are paramount in life, and I will tell you with honesty, it can get lonely, but you will never feel wanting if you perfect being virtuous, and people will love you and you will love them freely, but to find another who is the same will take time.
But truly, by the end of each day, you will know in your heart you will find happiness and that happiness sleeps in you.

To begin, be the true and honorable type of person you would like to find yourself. The best way to find who you are looking for is to insure you are capable of getting their attention as much as they would get yours.

Even if you found someone, would they want to be around you? That is the real question. True people do their thing every day, same as you. You could meet them all the time if you were the type that could show by act and word that you also are true and real.

Sit down sometime and write out a few things for yourself-
Who are you as a person?
Who are you looking for?
How could you become a person that would attract the type of mate you desire?
Look back on your writing about your desired mate and take out anything that is general; black hair, blonde, built. These attributes are not true indications of love; they are preferences. If looks are on your mind, you will have to decide which is more important- love or someone who looks good (how one looks is a lie anyway).
Think about how you look. Do you look like a real person? Do you look genuine or do you look like everyone else? Do you perm and dye your hair and put on makeup every day or do you try to treat your skin right so you don't have to cover anything? Truth reflected in you is what will catch someone's eye who wants truth in their lives as well. Again, looks lie.
Finally, decide a goal. What do you want this love you find to be like? Where will you both go? How will you both be when you grow older together? The idea of "Happily Ever After.." cut off the parts that counted. You never found out how Sleeping Beauty and Prince Charming handled parenting, who did dishes or laundry, who cooked and who worked, who changed diapers and who drove the better car.

Take what you've written and read it once in a while to make sure you are on track to being who you want to be so you can find what you want to find.

Next, pick apart the idea-
Love is also usually a question of mutual understanding and what someone has to offer the other. Love happens when we have 1) discovered something about someone else we want to have/own or 2) have taken the time to get to know each other well enough to feel comfortable together.
The second is better than the first, because if we fall in love out of lust or want, once you obtain some sort of satisfaction or understand how that person works, the "unexplainable" feeling you have of needing them fades.
This is how most couples and their passions somehow die. People think love "just happens" or "can't be explained". That is a good excuse to not take responsibility and matters into your own hands for your own happiness and making the other person responsible instead, and it always leads to blame because no one will ever be able to care for another so perfectly they don't get hurt unintentionally now and then... and the passion and love will die with the lies and blindness.

Find people with similar interests. Pour your heart out into places that will attract people akin to you and your desired match. Settle for nothing less that may distract you from your true dream. Enjoy coffee sessions and lunch specials with people instead of flirtatious evenings and sexual interludes.

And, as always, instead of reasoning away things when you are dissatisfied or uncomfortable, face them head on. To ignore a trouble is to lie to yourself, the opposite of what you are seeking.

Love is an emotion backed with reasons we'd rather be blind to, because we feel if we understood love, it'd somehow lose its luster. But I can say whole-heartedly, by learning how your heart ticks and how others sway in favor and need of one another, you can master and tame this pleasurable emotion. And in mastery, there is the chance for perfection and awe-striking, never-matchable passion, that has no other choice but to be real, raw and pure.

In short, make your intentions clear to yourself, if not to others and hold no bars in expressing exactly who you are and what you will and will not do, all the time. Run from nothing, feel pain for nothing, cause pain to no one and feel the greatest freedom you have ever felt before...
Stop worrying about your split ends, what your mother said the other day, about how your friend is acting weird. Stop pushing and insisting wasted passions about things too big for you to change as one person- politics, earth sciences, people's behavours- and become a passive assured that, when given the chance, will do what you believe is right all the time, on your own terms. Don't fret what you think you need to understand but can't seem to. Relax your whole life and enjoy it for once, and things that are enjoyable will come to you. Patience and diligence are two traits you want in your partner, so in this world of "Want it now" you must master it to find truth and to attract someone true as well.
And, like all other things that become natural, you will find love to match you, and it will come to you, naturally.

Answer 8

You have to learn to trust someone. You may always have heartache. This is life!

Answer 9

Pretty impossible. When you find the answer. By all means. PLEASE let me know!