i didn't mean to and now she is gone what do i do??????HELLLLPPPPPP MMMEEEE
2006-12-15 05:04:51 · 23 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nice going, douchebag. She's dropped your punk*ss!
2006-12-15 20:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jen Armero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The good thing is that you didn't mean to hit her and that you feel really sorry about it, the bad thing is, you DID hit her. So what l would suggest you do is apologize to her, tell her that you are going to take some anger management class and hope that she will forgive you. If she is smart she is going to ask you to prove to her that you will not ever hit her again, or she might just say no, that she is done with you after that. And she wouldn't be to blame for that either.
Make sure you get some professional help though, that is the first step you need to take.
Good luck to you
2006-12-15 05:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us can help you. You have to take steps to get professional help for controlling your anger, and your fists. Get a punching bag. Take anger management classes. Read the Bible and learn what love REALLY is. It's not possessing and controlling and brutalizing helpless women. The Bible says "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church, and gave himself for it". I hope your woman isn't badly injured. You say you "hit her HARD". You don't even express any remorse about the fact that you may have hurt her really bad, your only concern is for yourself. "She's gone, oh woe is me, now who's gonna sleep with me, and fix my meals and do the laundry, etc? HELLLLPPPPPP MMMEEE". I hope she moves on with her life and finds a man who knows how to treat her, cause you surely don't know how and you don't deserve her. When God created this world He saved the best for last. Woman is the masterpiece of His creation. He created woman to be a companion for men and a blessing in men's lives. And they are! And they also are to be cherished and treasured and cared for, not brutalized!
2006-12-15 05:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by nachtmann2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no justification for having done what you did and she has all the right in the world to have abandoned you! There is no help any one here can give you! The only help is the one you can give yourself! There are many underlying factors for domestic violence. You need to look deep inside yourself and see what it is that makes you react this way to something that may have been totally innocent. I don't care to know what those factors are; you are the only one who can successfully reach conclusions. Try getting some professional help to determine what it is and how to eradicate it!
2006-12-15 05:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey people...stop increasing ths person's problem by putting in stupid answers.
Well Michael... frst of all I wld say tht u shd have tried to ask her who is tht person rather than juz hitting her. Wat u did, I think, would have been the reaction of any other person in ur place. So dont blame urself. If she is going around with someone else y do u want to tie her? She wont stop anyway. Why think about the girl who doesnt care about u? Life does not stop becoz of one person. Move on...try to explain things to her. But if she does not listen then there is no point in thinking abt her.
In the end I wld juz like to wish u happiness :)
2006-12-15 05:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by koshika_agrawal1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are feeling bad now...but honestly, she did what she should have done. I was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years and it ended because my ex slapped me across the face....there is no excuse for physical violence, no matter what. I think you should get some counseling to ensure that this won't happen again.
2006-12-15 05:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by *ladybug* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find her, blast her again for running away. That'll teach her.
By the way, you DID mean to hit her. You could have stopped yourself at any point. If you're not pleased with the way you handled things, I suggest you fix the problem or stay away from women, Bobby Brown.
2006-12-15 05:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you accomplish by hitting her? Instead of being angry and hitting, use that anger and move on. She doesn't want to be with you if she's out and about. My suggestion... Stay single WHILE you get help with anger management. Then you will choose more wisely in the future.
2006-12-15 05:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get counselling to help you learn how to control your anger.
You have blown it with her, your girlfriend could have been with her brother / cousin / neighbour / friend who was helping her select the right xmas present for you but you thought the worst and acted in the most awful way if she has any sense at all she'll forget all about you because until you get your anger issues dealt with you shouldn't be anyones boyfriend
2006-12-15 05:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by madamspud 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is probably best that she is gone. Anyone that will get you so angry that you resort to hitting you do not need to be with. No matter what she did you had no right to put your hands on her. Make sure you have your anger in check before you attemt to be with her or anyone else. I do think you need to apologize for you actions. She is wrong for what she did to you, but does not count for striking her.
2006-12-15 05:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. You hit her and no women wants to be hit. She left you can appoligize and tell her you will never do it again or you can take anger managment classes and prove to her that you are trying to change and then maybe she will come back.
2006-12-15 05:39:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋