I got pregnant while I was living with my fiance. He is obviously the father of my baby and when I was three months along we slpit up. Things just ended up not working out and in the best interest of my son I left that alcoholic butt head. I'm not very big even though I'm 6 months along, and many men still find me attractive. I was going to wait until after I had the baby just cause I thought I'd be huge by now and figured nobody would want anything to do with me. I feel it's time to let go of the baby's father and move on. Some people feel I should wait cause it's morally wrong. Just wanted to hear other peoples view on my situation I'm in at this time. I also wanted to add in that I'm not ever going to put a man in front of what my child needs, I'm definatly going to be responsable in who I date, and in no way am I being selfish by wanting to date again. My son comes first!
2006-12-15 04:59:48 · 19 answers · asked by Camerons Mama07 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Don't worry about what other people say. They need to mind their own business. Most of the people you are listening to probably don't have much morals themselves. (And are probably hypocrites). Do what makes you feel happy, hun. One happy parent is better than two unhappy parents.
2006-12-15 05:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your baby deserve only the best. If that means a totally new man in your life then so be it! Don't listen to anyone who tries to make you feel guilty for getting on with your life. Just be sure you let the guy your dating know up front that you're pregnant. Unfortunately it is a deal breaker for some and why waste your time with any guy who feels that way?
2006-12-15 05:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very hard question. I think if the man is okay with the fact that your carrying another mans child. Go for it. But keep in mind that there are very insensitive men out there who don't want the burden of a child. So be careful and hope your child is happy and healthy!!! Good luck!!!
2006-12-15 05:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Korey R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no problem at all with your situation, especially if this man respects you to the point where he is willing to be the man that the baby's father should have been. i've seen this many, many, many times, and all i can say is that i have so much respect and honor for the men in these positions. Good luck and congrats on ur pregnancy!!
2006-12-15 05:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by mzsouthernprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I think it's ok, because you said DATING. If it begins to be more sexual though I think morally that's wrong.
Other than that I see nothing wrong with you wanting to date this man...although make sure he knows that you're pregnant; since you mentioned you aren't showing yet.
Congratulations and Good Luck
2006-12-15 05:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of this before...and honestly, if the new guy is ok with it, then go ahead! Being pregnant is not a disease to be ashamed of, its really a beautiful thing...just make sure that they are aware (if you aren't very big) from the beginning and you never know...you could meet your mr. right while pregnant! Congratulations hun!
2006-12-15 05:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by *ladybug* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband when I was 7 months pregnant with my ex's child. My husband treats my daughter as his own and I wouldn't have brought him into my life if I didnt think it was okay. As long as he accepts the baby, then everything should turn out great! They did for me!Good luck!
2006-12-15 05:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well you know I feel that if you are up front with the guy about you being pregnant and he has no problem with it then go ahead.You need some comfort and love too.Also you never know what will happen.
2006-12-15 05:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by KIM L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that as long as you don't drink/smoke on dates, and as long as you're upfront with guys (because they tend to dislike it when you lie) you'll be fine dating. I'm glad you've gotten yourself into a better situation than being with an alcoholic. You and your son deserve better than that.
2006-12-15 05:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is okay with u being pregnant and wants to be a permanent figure in your life then go for it!!!! but don't just go dating around for your baby's sake!!! good luck
2006-12-15 05:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋